Am I pathetic?

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Is it pathetic that I'm 18 and I don't have a girlfriend? Or properly kissed (some would say that I have kissed a girl but the situation was...debatable)? Or a proper date? I'm like "Super Virgin" TT TT...

Im 19 and I haven't... and seeing as how most people on here (or with autism) are socially awkward your not alone.
Hot- If I think someone is hot then I am not thinking about their personality
Cute- they are pretty and have a good personality
Smart- Of course I want to be with someone that is smart.
Short and tall- kind of different compared to the rest of the questions.

Short answer: No!

I think I was around your age when I had my first date. Lost my virginity a few years later. There are probably more people like you than you know.

No you are not pathetic. Just don't let loneliness push you into a relationship you're going to regret. Better to be alone then with the wrong person/ an std/ making child support payments/ being jaded and scarred when the perfect mate shows up but too bad- you're not perfect for them because now you're jaded and scarred/ turning your life into Fatal Attraction/ destroy someone's life because you aren't equipped to handle the complexities of a relationship and you unintentionally dash them to pieces/ just thought you were gay and realized afterwards you made a big mistake/, etc. Better to wait.

I am a lot older and still a virgin and think its probably too late for me-I am sad about it that I will never experience what my peers experience.

I'm 23, never had a date, never been kissed. You're not pathetic.

You are only 18. Plenty of NT people your age still haven't done those things.

I still haven't dated or kissed a girl yet, don't worry you're not pathetic at all.

You're not pathetic, but I am.

i guess a cute, smart, short and loyal sad person, that needs my light and can be happy with me, could do...

No one is truly pathetic unless they do something pathetic.

So no, you are not pathetic.

Kairi and Sora, I like that avatar
And no you aren't, I've been lucky to meet the right women at the right time, otherwise I would be in your situation being 19.

And about the poll... I was torn between cute and smart, cute is like a warm personality and the right looks, but smart... the ability of certain women to grasp complicated concepts, and understad what I'm saying without having to dumb it down, that's quite attractive

As you are a human and humans are pitiful creatures you are pathetic by default. However, this does not making you anymore pathetic than anyone else.

Yes, but your avatar makes up for it.

For the poll, I chose sad person who I can be happy with.

I personally do not think it's pathetic if you do or don't have a date or lover. I think it's a horrible social stigma that NTs have created because practically everyone desires sex, lust, etc. You name it.

To answer this question No.
Im 20 single and still a virgin as well.
Oh and I wish in the poll there was someone whose your soulmate?