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RTSgamerFTW
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27 Jan 2007, 12:59 am

Sorry for creating another topic but...

If i don't get a work permit and a job by the end of feburary,what should i do since my life will be ruined for good...

Run away from home and live in the wilderness for the rest of my sh***y life (i kinda like this option the most)

In case i don't get a job by the end of feburary its that option,no ifs,ands or buts about it.


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27 Jan 2007, 2:03 am

I think a modified 2 would be on order, offhand, but tell me your problems, at least those related to said inability to get a work permit.


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27 Jan 2007, 2:31 am

...talk to your parents

...have some patience

...ask your mom to help you

I didn't manage to get a job until I was 17 and I had to quit shortly after I turned 18. I got my job by asking my mother for help. She helped me fill out the application and told me what to put down for personal references and work experience in an instance where I had none. Until just this August I haven't found a job I really liked and kept. (if you ever get a job offer from Western Watts it's a BAD idea)



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27 Jan 2007, 2:34 am

I guess number two is the best idea of the four, at least nobody gets hurt. I've taken option four once or twice actually, and though I got in trouble, I did manage to get out of a completely intolerable situation (left out in cold, no food, physical abuse).



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27 Jan 2007, 2:49 am

Hey, I don't know the situation, but why do you absolutely have to have a job by the end of February? Are your parents doing this?
I had my second job at 17, and I held it for a good while since it paid over minimum wage and I worked alone. I got that job from my highschool's career centre. Are there options like this available to you? What about a local job search club?
I'm looking for a new job too.



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27 Jan 2007, 7:10 am

Unknown wrote:
If i don't get a work permit and a job by the end of feburary,what should i do since my life will be ruined for good...

Why the end of February, and why will you life be ruined for good?


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27 Jan 2007, 7:20 am

I do not know about all industries but feburary is a very slow bussiness month. It has to be the least likely month to find a job.

In the case of a young person the summer is the best time to find a job.

If you do run away I assume your big and tall and can easily pass
for 18. Be sure to know the full name and DOB of a person that is your size that is 18 or over. And then head for a warm climate.



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27 Jan 2007, 7:51 am

Head for Laramie, WY. When I ran away I waved to the cops who were looking for me and they waved back and drove off. They are DUMB.



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27 Jan 2007, 8:07 am

ahayes wrote:
Head for Laramie, WY. When I ran away I waved to the cops who were looking for me and they waved back and drove off. They are DUMB.


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27 Jan 2007, 8:27 am

First of all,
what you young people may not know,
is that answering this question may in fact place you as 'accomplice' according to various laws, in the event that any actual action by Unknown is commenced.

Do not worry.
Your ip and log in information will be supeoned; WP would be forced to give it.
You will be dragged into a courtroom.
The news will be ALL OVER IT.
Aspie press :roll:
And you may in fact experience time.

Unknown-I know this is the Haven; do you think about others when you post?
You are not asking others to cheer you up or help you think through 'bad times'

you are asking for advice on which of the following things you should do;
kill yourself, kill others and then yourself, commit terrorism.

My advice to you is to call 911 and ask to be picked up. Print off a copy of this thread and hand it to the responding officer.


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27 Jan 2007, 8:43 am

SeaBright wrote:
First of all,
what you young people may not know,
is that answering this question may in fact place you as 'accomplice' according to various laws, in the event that any actual action by Unknown is commenced.


He made the 4 choices I merely told him which of the four choices
was the wisest. People in other threads have allready told him he is acting irrational and can not trust his own judgemnet right now.
Nothing we can say will change that.



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27 Jan 2007, 10:07 am

Hi Machine1


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27 Jan 2007, 10:37 am

SeaBright makes a good point. Advocating 1, 3, or 4 would violate WP rules. No. 2 falls into a grey area. If you feel there is a real risk of you harming yourself or others, you should call your local suicide hotline. I can help you find one in your area if you want. Maybe it would be better, Unknown, if you solicited advice by explaining your situation in more detail and asking open-ended questions. That way other members can offer other options that you might not have thought of. But the first thing you have to do is adjust your attitude and become more hopeful that that there are other options that you haven't thought of.


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27 Jan 2007, 10:45 am

He said his location was Toledo, Ohio.

Ticker looked up some places near him that could help:

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Toledo, Ohio

LHS Maumee Youth Center for Asperger’s Disorder
A new residential center for children and youth ages six to eighteen-plus who have been diagnosed with Asperger’s Disorder is opening. The Center is situated on 13 acres near Neapolis, Ohio, south of Toledo, Ohio. LHS Family and Youth Services, Inc. is a social service agency with headquarters in Toledo, Ohio, serving children, youth and families through community-based residential treatment group homes and other services.

The LHS Maumee Youth Center for Asperger’s Disorder serves up to twenty children and youth in its residential program. Most children and youth placed in the residential setting will tend to be aggressive and have multiple diagnosis/needs.

All staff, in addition to their undergraduate and graduate work, are trained in the core competencies of residential child and youth care and will be trained by experts in the autistic spectrum disorder field.

For additional information on the Center, or to make an inquiry regarding a potential referral to the Center, please contact Steve Plottner at splot@infinet.com or by phone at 419-798-9382.


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Check out this link for listing of AS support groups in Ohio.

http://www.udel.edu/bkirby/asperger/suppOH.html

You have more groups there than in my state!



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27 Jan 2007, 10:46 am

Quote:
1.Kill myself (seriously)


Never

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2.Run away from home and live in the wilderness for the rest of my sh***y life (i kinda like this option the most)


Depends on where you live. You won't last long

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3.Get revenge against my enemies and then end my life (yes i'm serious)


Never. Murder suicides are horrible

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4.Become a terroist and fight america (yes i'm f***ing serious)


If by fight you mean "passive aggressive" sure. OR, if they are oppressing you but they really aren't doing much to warrant killing people.

Aren't you 14? I didnt have a job until I was like 18!



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27 Jan 2007, 10:51 am

http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/r ... oledo.html

University of Toledo Psychology Clinic seems the cheapest

Avg Cost (per session): $20-$29
Sliding Scale: Yes