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Exactly that.

I never said I was the only one, with 6 billion people in the world at any given time im sure someone is doing the exact same thing as me for the exact same reasons. Noone in this world can possibly be "the only one to have ever XXXXXX" unless you discover some particle or build a time machine or something of that nature.

...you ignored all the other advice, silly.

I didnt ignore it, ive already discussed it enough but nobody seems to remember. I edit my posts out of fear of them coming back to haunt me, not cause i cant deal with it or anything like that. And I wont be going to a psych any time soon for many reasons most out of my control.

MXH, if you fear your posts coming back to haunt you, why do you post at all? You evidently have the intention of other people seeing what you've written, otherwise you'd write it privately, right?

not always....i often write things, spur of the moment, and then i'm like '...why did i write there where everyone can see.'
but i do agree in this case, he reaches out for help and then pulls away when it's offered.

ittakes a bit of time to process what could happen.

Alright, I didn't mean to sound aggressive or anything if I came across as so, just in case.
Hope things improve for you, it can be done.

yea i dont think so.

Well, I did, what's the difference?

that isee whats going on with my life and why it wont work. thats the difference.

But that's what I thought for a long time, because I couldn't see a way it would work. Whilst things aren't perfect at the moment, they're going very well.
Why don't you think it'll work?

because ive seen more than enough to understand my situation and why it wont work.

Well that's what you think, and with such a mentality odds are things won't improve.
As far as I know, you still haven't told us what your situation is and why you think this. Nobody can provide a good solution without knowing the problem.

There's no reason to explain. There's nothing you or anyone else can suggest that I haven't thought of myself.

Why did you bump the thread in the first place, then?
I probably wouldn't have an answer for your problems, whatever they are, but unless you can reveal them publicly or privately, people who may be able to help can't really do much in the way of resolving.
This thread is nine pages long; if you didn't want anyone to discuss this with, you'd have let the thread die a long time ago. At least, I would have.