he still won't leave it alone.

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Jonsi
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06 Mar 2011, 8:22 am

Yes, yes, it is.

Don't bottle it up. You'll only explode down the road.



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06 Mar 2011, 8:24 am

i'm just sick of crying.
i hate to cry.

and everything hurts.

what am i supposed to do to make any of this better?



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06 Mar 2011, 8:27 am

For the extraction of emotional pain usually requires someone to listen to your problems. Thats why councillors are good, you scream, cry and hurt and you can feel the pain coming out. You feel a little better.



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06 Mar 2011, 8:28 am

I'm sorry, but have you talked to Stefan yet? If you haven't, there's your answer.



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06 Mar 2011, 8:29 am

I really hope they catch chris, He raped you and he killed a cat to get your attention, that should be enough to put him behind bars for a few years.



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06 Mar 2011, 8:29 am

i know it's going around in circles and i'm f*****g hopeless to help but - what if he rejects me when he knows all the stuff i think in my head about this?
he'll think i'm pathetic and crazy and he'll go and find a normal girl.



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06 Mar 2011, 8:31 am

No, he'll want to try and help you. He'll want to comfort you. He loves you as much as you love him.



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06 Mar 2011, 8:32 am

I trust you, you know.
But, if you're wrong and he leaves me I don't know what i'll do.

I can't just do nothing anymore.
Okay.



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06 Mar 2011, 8:34 am

emlion wrote:
i know it's going around in circles and i'm f***ing hopeless to help but - what if he rejects me when he knows all the stuff i think in my head about this?
he'll think i'm pathetic and crazy and he'll go and find a normal girl.


Just the fact that he protects you and stays together with you is a sure sign that he really loves you.



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06 Mar 2011, 8:35 am

If I'm wrong I don't know what I'll do.

But I have very, very high doubts that he will. He truly loves you.



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06 Mar 2011, 8:39 am

Only a jerk would leave you because of this.
If he's not a jerk he wont leave you.


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06 Mar 2011, 8:49 am

Just from what you've posted about him it's obvious he loves you. Don't worry about him leaving you. Just focus on yourself right now , you owe yourself that



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06 Mar 2011, 8:53 am

Constant whining is a turn-off.



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06 Mar 2011, 8:54 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Constant whining is a turn-off.


which is why he'll leave me.


you're right.
i won't tell him.



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06 Mar 2011, 8:56 am

Boo, get out.

emlion, he wouldn't. As I said and as he's probably said many times, he loves you. He wouldn't leave you. He would want you to tell him.



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06 Mar 2011, 8:57 am

BS

Yes constant whining is a turn off when all someone ever does is whine, or when they're whining about really pathetic things

"Whining" about being raped/beaten/abused/stalked is entirely different, especially when the person you're "whining" to is your bf

Talk to him

Why would he leave you for being hurt?