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15 Jul 2009, 4:08 pm

dillan wrote:
ok problem big problem my dad is considering pressing charges because I am "unruly"
he doesnt understan asperger's at all, and he says I am just a bad kid.
I do not know what I am going to do
someone tell me what I need to do



What exactly are you doing that is "unruly?"



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15 Jul 2009, 4:49 pm

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I'm having some trouble figuring out what criminal behavior would be caused by asperger's, and it's certainly not an excuse for continued bad behavior. If things are too much, you need to be taking that up with a therapist. You haven't said what he's pressing charges for. If he refuses to get you help, getting the law involved might force the issue. Tell the cops or the court the truth about what's going on.. maybe you'll get what you need.
I am overwhelmed and people will not help whig=ch is why there is a problem


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15 Jul 2009, 4:53 pm

unruly means I sit and do my own thing all day, and get in big fights with my intrusive drunk stepmom


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15 Jul 2009, 5:58 pm

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unruly means I sit and do my own thing all day, and get in big fights with my intrusive drunk stepmom


look, police will barely lift a finger if you get knocked down and mugged on the street. theyre not gonna rush out to tell you to be less passive.


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15 Jul 2009, 6:24 pm

dillan wrote:
unruly means I sit and do my own thing all day, and get in big fights with my intrusive drunk stepmom


Well I'm quite sure that you can't bring up charges on someone for sitting and doing their own thing all day.. unless it's a parent with a kid they're neglecting..

Sounds like the intrusive drunk is more likely to have problems with the law then you are.

If you've been evaluated and diagnosed with asperger's by child services, I think your dad has to get you help. Was that the result of some kind of prior investigation? I mean, how did the asperger's diagnosis from child services come about?



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15 Jul 2009, 6:53 pm

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unruly means I sit and do my own thing all day, and get in big fights with my intrusive drunk stepmom


Where's your mom?



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16 Jul 2009, 9:48 am

she died last year, and the asperger's diagnosis is what they came back with because I was evaluated for reacting oddly to her death


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16 Jul 2009, 3:56 pm

Do you have any family members you can talk to about this? Like a grandparent or someone from your mom's side of the family (like an Uncle or Aunt).

I have some friends that were raised by a parent with an alcohol problem, and I know that's incredibly tough. There's really no answer that I could type in here to solve your problem with that, but having family members on your side sure does help you out a lot. They do also have alcohol rehabilitation programs if you think your step mom could benefit from that, but she'd have to be the one to make those kind of decisions or the programs don't work. But sometimes it helps for someone else to locate the programs and get some flyers or brochures to make it easier for her to call them when she's ready.



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17 Jul 2009, 1:21 am

IF he does press charges....upon arrest, you have the RIGHT TO ATTAIN A LAWYER, and since you are a minor with no money, you will qualify for legal aid and then you can ask them to have children's services remove from your dad and stepmoms custody and have you placed elsewhere.You can file neglect and abuse charges, and since you have an aspergers diagnosis and the reason for all of this is because your dad is in denial and refused to give you treatment, he and that evil witch stepmom can both be criminally charged for neglect and abuse.YOu can also look at the possibility of suing them civilly for malicious prosecution and abuse and neglect once the bogus charges he presses against you are dismissed.


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17 Jul 2009, 1:24 am

The best and most important thing is to APPLY FOR LEGAL AID AND GET A LAWYER.Inform the lawyer of the diagnosis, bring the paper, and he/she can have those who diagnosed you, testify in court on your behalf.


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17 Jul 2009, 4:23 pm

ZEGH8578 wrote:
dillan wrote:
unruly means I sit and do my own thing all day, and get in big fights with my intrusive drunk stepmom


look, police will barely lift a finger if you get knocked down and mugged on the street. theyre not gonna rush out to tell you to be less passive.


:lol: So why does my sister threaten me with jail, saying for starting fights at home, I can get arrested and prisoners are "worse than us (my family)"??? To me, they are about the same.