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KenM
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04 Aug 2009, 4:33 am

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This is the Haven; either respond accordingly or don't respond. Please consider this a singular warning to those whose replies were removed from this thread.

Ken, start living for yourself instead of waiting for someone else to come along; I think you might meet more people along the way taking that route, to be honest.


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I have said before in other threads, other then not having someone in my life, everything else is good. Great job, friends, a good place to live. But I have been rejected all my life and this is a huge emotional void becase of it.

I do go out and do things with friends, ect.. I do live for myself.



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04 Aug 2009, 12:46 pm

KenM wrote:
makuranososhi wrote:
This is the Haven; either respond accordingly or don't respond. Please consider this a singular warning to those whose replies were removed from this thread.

Ken, start living for yourself instead of waiting for someone else to come along; I think you might meet more people along the way taking that route, to be honest.


M.


I have said before in other threads, other then not having someone in my life, everything else is good. Great job, friends, a good place to live. But I have been rejected all my life and this is a huge emotional void becase of it.

I do go out and do things with friends, ect.. I do live for myself.


But you seem to be waiting for someone - and waiting only means that things are passing you by while you wait. You're not rejected here; there are a fair number of us here who seek to respond to you and talk about what you are facing. Being alone can be immensely painful, but it is not permanent unless we give up hope.


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04 Aug 2009, 8:04 pm

Well I'm not really going out and looking for anyone right now. Mainly because with all the rejection I have had, I feel I will just get rejected again. So whats the point.

At this stage even if an atractive women shows intrested in me, I would not do anything because I will think she is using me for something or just wants to play games with my heart.

Thats the point I am at when it comes to relationships. I have been hurt so much its all I know and I don't want to keep getting hurt so I don't look for anyone.