bullied by neighbours at 5:30am

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Cyanide
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03 Aug 2009, 9:10 pm

I would key their car... but that's just me.



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03 Aug 2009, 10:47 pm

"Can I help you?" would probably be a better answer to personal space issues. Most people respond better to rhetorical questions than angry suggestions.

"b***h please" might make a good follow up to mockery, if you're not afraid of confrontation, that is.



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03 Aug 2009, 11:56 pm

slash her tires...If you slash on the sides and not the threads, she will have to get the tire replaced,which is more expensive than getting it fixed at the local Canadian Tire automotive shop.


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start making SPCA complaints on her.


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06 Aug 2009, 1:00 am

Claradoon wrote:
i can't stand this any more. when i walk Dawg we get accosted by various & sundry forms of humanity - i live in an area of high-rises, not to mention a high-rise old-age home and a shopping mall. in an effort to get away from all these people, i walk Dawg at 5:30am. and this morning along comes a woman with 2 small white dogs (same as mine) so i duck up onto a lawn to get away from them (avoiding huge barking session at dawn) - and - are you reading for this? -

***she followed us*** (did i mention this was at 5:30am?)

so it got into a madness of me trying to get away and her following and the dogs pulling every which way and finally i said to her "will you go away!" and she mimicked me, whining "myoom myoom myoom myoo myoom" with the same inflection as what I said.

and she moved along doing the whiny-mimic thing at me, while me and my Dawg stomped back home. we had only got as far as the corner of my building.

i can't live with this kind of harassment any more. it happens (with different people) every time i go out. the only reason I don't kill myself is my Dawg.



If someone started bullying me like that and mimicking me, Id start berating them until they either attack me or leave.If they attack me, I could call the police, if they leave in tears, then they can't prove I said anything to them nor can they go after me legally.


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08 Aug 2009, 7:51 am

Hmm.. buy a realistic looking fake pistol.

Pull it out and shout "Stay away from me or I will blow your damn head off!"

That should do the trick. :D



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08 Aug 2009, 9:44 am

Claradoon wrote:
could you tell me exactly what would you do? i need to learn a little mean to be going on with.


i am the quiet type, but when she goes as far as to "myom myom" i would raise my voice. i really really would. just slurp up the little adrenaline rush you may get from hurling out of your bubble. "WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM!? ARE YOU [insert brain damage here]?? DID YOU GET [insert maltreatment] AS A KID!? Do you cry at night? GET A F'ING LIFE!! !"

by "raise voice" i mean, say it like you mean it. i never yell, but i HAVE told people to piss off. you just have to let yourself freak out a little. think of is an an exception to the rule: you CAN come off as a lunatic, you dont HAVE to follow social rules w this individual ;]

you have to get cruel sometimes.
not all the time, just. dont be patient constantly, you need to snap now and then. that s**t following you home to bully you is ABSOLUTELY unacceptable, and warrants a raised voice from ANYbody.
my brother would get violent, but thats him. he has issues. serious ones :D
im saying: a chick like that doesnt know who shes messing with, if she thinks she can go around MOCKING strangers :S


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