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bdhkhsfgk
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19 Sep 2009, 12:32 pm

My ex-friend has kicked me a few times for innocently trying to wake him up, and he is a very ungrateful and disguisting person. He also is rude and violent to his other friends, and they have attempted to kill his mentality also, but failed. I have AS, yes, but that doesn't mean anger is part of it, I am anger, worthless without it, I become blind without it, I have to hate something, otherwise, I will become nothingness. I am not mongo, I know who I befriend, i know the friends I have are nice people that loves me for who I am, and that Ex-friend is thrash. I also know that people who f*** with me are not my friends. I also take care of my anger, unleashing it's wrath upon those stupid enough to c*ck with me.



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19 Sep 2009, 10:10 pm

Your friend may be Aspie but that doesn't give him an excuse to treat you like sh!t. You can be understanding of the fact that his AS will cause him to act in certain ways, but that doesn't mean that you have to be infinitely patient and essentially be a punching bag for him either. Yes, it's understandably upsetting that he doesn't want to go to your birthday party, but it's up to you to decide whether this is the last straw, so to speak, and you just don't want to put up with it anymore, or if you're willing to give him another chance.

Your example of the Nintendo Wii should put up a red flag, however... it's rather manipulative and deliberately misleading to do what your friend did. It makes me wonder if there's something that is causing him to do that ("AS" is not a sufficient cause), and if that is something that he can get help with.

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20 Sep 2009, 1:15 am

I was very, VERY angry yesterday when I received such s*** from him, I have never been so angry in a while and that do NOT happen often, He is a CHILDISH_*SSHOLE!! GROW UP!! ! My aspie friend number 2 also has a birthday party a few weeks after mine, and I can already foresee CHAOS. If he continues to behave like that, he may lose all his friends, he is a perfect example of a rude, annoying, CHILDISH aspie. I just wanted to be friendly, but he= :nerdy: :shameonyou:

He kept pulling tricks on me like wanting me to smell on a chemical that makes you sick, I thought I was going to sleep, and became sick instead, I already see him getting bullied when he arrives at my school, and I won't be there for him, I will be a part of the bullies instead so he can regret the s*** he has bestowed upon me. He also b*tches about his teeth not being correct, then GET BRACERS LIKE ME!! I have a few aspie friends, and they are polite, cool, and very trustworthy, I have never seen them behave like s***, but if the s***head tries to manipulate me, I WILL F*** HIS MIND UP SO HE CANNOT THINK NORMALLY AGAIN!! !! My birthday is in 4-5 days or something :)



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21 Sep 2009, 5:37 pm

I mean WTF ?

He dont wants to come to your party and is an a*******, well than have a party with out him he may simply not want come for some obscure reason. If you dont like him dont hang out with him and if he gives you s**t give it back to him.

Not everyone has to be nice and pollite, i mean you cant change people so find the ones you get a long with.


At least you dont have to buy him pizza.



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22 Sep 2009, 1:17 am

I think you misunderstand, he is so rude, and answers everything sarcastic, manipulative, and pretends he is polite, but no, he actually diguists me, I'm sure he dislikes my aspie friend as well, and I wait to see if he is going to show up to my aspie friend's party which is a few days after mine. He will probably choose me because I'm more trustworthy, kind, is not rude, sarcastic, f***** up et.c.



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23 Sep 2009, 4:40 pm

I have a problem with an aspie friend of mine who just keeps stressing me out. I don't have any bad feelings toward him but he's just so self centered with things that seeing him is a chore sometimes. He always wants to drag people to do things like go to the movies to see something only he wants to see, etc. And he always organises things badly so we cant meet up at the right time. Or he just goes wandering off and forgets hes with you. I think things like that are maybe a sign that the person isnt meant to be around you at the moment. He probably doesnt make an effort as he doesnt see his friendship with you as priority, IE my friend im ranting about has a new job with NT friends who hes excited about knowing.



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24 Sep 2009, 12:02 am

AMEN brother, my ex-friend is also a b*tch who only wants to see the movies HE likes, play the games HE likes, WHEN he likes it, no wonder he has very few friends, he always says he has a s***load of friends, but he is a dirty, filthy liar, he only has one friend, and I'm sure he will lose him soon.



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26 Sep 2009, 12:46 pm

geez! stop being his friend. he's obviously doing you more harm than good. but please dont "f**k him up"

lol, when you said "he sits on his ass eating toast all day" that made me laugh. XD



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26 Sep 2009, 1:27 pm

Thank you sister, he says he is so good in gymnastics that he has his own training set, but when he begins at my school, I will watch over him like an unseen raven, judge him of how good he is, and laugh of him if he is not in good shape, IN HIS FACE!!



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26 Sep 2009, 2:08 pm

ARGH! *slaps bdhkhsfgk* stope being so hateful!! !! !! why dont you just forget he exists? why would you want to bring more hate into the world? it already sucks as it is!
and by the way, that slap was a "come to your senses" slap.