One staff person at my clubhouse will be the death of me!

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Spazzergasm
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03 Aug 2011, 7:33 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:

Spazzergasm wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

Spazzergasm wrote:

I think she was trying to be nice...

well, when CockneyRebel told the staff person of her goal, she wan't looking for someone to tell her to create a new goal. she wanted to share her aims and perhaps have some encouragement for that.

it's kind of like aiming for a B in a difficult subject in school, and having a school counsellor (who doesn't understand all of the factors and challenges behind your goal) tell you to go for an A. it can be really discouraging.

the staff member hurt her feelings and it made her frustrated. whether or not that person intended to be mean or nice is not really the point.

Ohhhh, I understand now.
I'm sorry Cockney! I didn't mean it like that.
I think 165 is definitely a fine goal.

I forgive you. Would you like a steak or a burger?

Burger, please!

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03 Aug 2011, 8:19 pm

You be the size that makes you happy and comfortable, it does not matter what anyone else thinks or suggests.
Your personality is the important part anyway, and you always seem to be so positive and happy here.

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