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Kurgan
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11 Feb 2013, 7:43 am

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Who said I'd even consent to sex.

Women get stuff from men wanting to sleep with them, emotional support, gifts, flowers, compliments, whatever help they want. That's what I want. I don't give a *** if I die a virgin. In fact, I'd prefer it.

I've gotten oral a few times, it's nothing I couldn't do without.

Trust me, if I could get out of this country I'd disappear so fast. Stupid, superficial, emotionally cold, selfish people.

No hobby or work I could do with a 9/10 migraine every other day or third if I'm lucky. Is there a job out there where vomiting into the trashcan every five minutes is acceptable? Not to mention sleeping schedule is erratic because of it.


So in other words, you just want to use men to boost your ego without giving anything in return? Most girls with boyfriends (90% of all girls above 20), aren´t perfect 10s, nor are they bimbos. Typically, they´re ordinary 5s and very few girls are below 4 or above 6. The odds that you´re to ugly to get laid are minimal.

Be sure to get all the vitamins and minerals you need, drink enough water, cut down on the carbs and sodium--and increase your unsaturated fat and protein intake. This may do wonders to your migraine.

Consider estrogen therapy if looks are holding you back after a healthy diet, decent clothes, exercise, a feminine haircut and make-up has been implemented in your life.



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11 Feb 2013, 8:54 am

I don't know but these problems seem a lot deeper than men acting shallow towards you.

I mean when you say this...

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Women get stuff from men wanting to sleep with them, emotional support, gifts, flowers, compliments, whatever help they want. That's what I want. I don't give a *** if I die a virgin. In fact, I'd prefer it.


I don't relate to it. You're definitely right, there are some men who will do that--and they don't care about you. Just like there are some people who idolize celebrities who haven't earned in my opinon any of the respect or admiration they're getting.

I could relate to the possibly perceived low self esteem, but the rest..

As a guy, i've never gotten any of this crap in my life neither have most of the guys i've talked to nor have many women i've talked to. Maybe my mom was close, she thought some men out of her league, got gifts and help from them that longterm was worthless, she's not even happy with any of that stuff--maybe not happy in general. I know a couple of other women--say position.

Your post is nothing but a vent--you claim to know everything you state and end sentences with certainty while questions nothing of your opinion or your behavior. The door is pretty much closed on any possible advice; which leaves very little room to grow.

Pretty much what you stated tho is that you only want to find someone to relate--but this is and I say this as a simple opinion; not logical.
Not all guys are scumbags, completely shallow, give women special treatment, or only talk to women based largely on appearance.

Very few---VERY few people get the pillow treatment you speak of, flowers? Yeah maybe most men give those every anniversary or birthday maybe more if they're truly in love and almost never if they're in lust unless to bed someone--as you claim to want them to look at you with. Compliments? No.. compliments are generally equated to having a mutual respect for an individual. Other than "You can cook your ass off". Also anyone can give emotional support.

I mean if no "guys will ever want to talk to and hit on you" yet guys "only befriend women they want to ****" anyway then at the end of the day--why do you care?