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07 Mar 2007, 8:43 pm

RedMage, I’ve been discussing this thread with Graelwyn and I agree with her that you exercised poor judgment by mentioning her by name. On the other hand, this is the Haven, a safe place to come and vent if you feel the need. I reviewed WP rules regarding personal attacks with Graelwyn and she edited her post. I’m sorry you got angry and I’m sorry you got annoyed, but you can't make other people responsible for your feelings, I mean, you can, but it doesn't work very well.

Everybody, please remember, It helps facilitate useful, constructive communication (something we could all learn more about as it will greatly help us in other, RL, parts of our lives) if we frame our opinions with phrases like, “I think,” “I feel,” and “I believe.” That way we acknowledge that our opinions are just that—our opinions.


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07 Mar 2007, 8:47 pm

I'm sorry I went off like the way I did, I didn't mean to cause any harm...



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07 Mar 2007, 9:03 pm

I am sorry too, I lost my control and said some things I should not have... and at my age, should have maybe known better lol.


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07 Mar 2007, 9:47 pm

And I need to learn to stop being mean!



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08 Mar 2007, 2:54 am

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I think naming names is a pretty immature thing to do. What happens on msn is not to be thrown out on the board. I stick by what I say. No, you wont get anywhere if you just keep making excuses for not being able to change things. It is all very well to say you want to get out of the house and get somewhere but that doesn't happen sitting on your backside in front of a gaming system. You wanted to roleplay...you do one post then say you are quitting because it is too fast...I give a way around that, but oh no, it is impossible to overcome this minor obstacle. You just makes excuses to not do things and don't listen. You are not showing logic. You can only do Zelda Rp...no, in fact, you quit rp...make up your mind which it is! I am extremely angry now. I let it drop when you came into one of my threads and called it stupid, but this is too much and it is very GUTLESS. If you have something to say about someone on the board, you should try dealing with it in a more mature manner, and the fact is, this was not even an issue on the board, this was in msn messenger! You are now blocked and will remain so. I tried to offer advice on what to do to change your situation, since you whine about it so much, but you just go and spit it in peoples faces. Obstacles are overcome by trying to overcome them and by keeping on trying, not by quitting at the first hurdle.


A little harsh, Graelwyn. I am disappointed.


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08 Mar 2007, 2:56 am

But I realise that you have been having a hard time, and you did apologise.


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08 Mar 2007, 2:59 am

RedMage wrote:
And I need to learn to stop being mean!


You do not seem THAT cruel (maybe I have not read enough of your posts). :)


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08 Mar 2007, 3:00 am

So are you two friends now?


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08 Mar 2007, 4:46 am

AlexandertheSolitary wrote:
Graelwyn wrote:
I think naming names is a pretty immature thing to do. What happens on msn is not to be thrown out on the board. I stick by what I say. No, you wont get anywhere if you just keep making excuses for not being able to change things. It is all very well to say you want to get out of the house and get somewhere but that doesn't happen sitting on your backside in front of a gaming system. You wanted to roleplay...you do one post then say you are quitting because it is too fast...I give a way around that, but oh no, it is impossible to overcome this minor obstacle. You just makes excuses to not do things and don't listen. You are not showing logic. You can only do Zelda Rp...no, in fact, you quit rp...make up your mind which it is! I am extremely angry now. I let it drop when you came into one of my threads and called it stupid, but this is too much and it is very GUTLESS. If you have something to say about someone on the board, you should try dealing with it in a more mature manner, and the fact is, this was not even an issue on the board, this was in msn messenger! You are now blocked and will remain so. I tried to offer advice on what to do to change your situation, since you whine about it so much, but you just go and spit it in peoples faces. Obstacles are overcome by trying to overcome them and by keeping on trying, not by quitting at the first hurdle.


A little harsh, Graelwyn. I am disappointed.


I do not really care if you are disappointed. Since you were not involved in the whole thing, the point is moot. You did not see all because some was removed from other posts. This is closed now. I prefer for it not to be resurrected as it is clear we resolved our differences. Thankyou.


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08 Mar 2007, 4:59 am

Graelwyn wrote:
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Graelwyn wrote:
I think naming names is a pretty immature thing to do. What happens on msn is not to be thrown out on the board. I stick by what I say. No, you wont get anywhere if you just keep making excuses for not being able to change things. It is all very well to say you want to get out of the house and get somewhere but that doesn't happen sitting on your backside in front of a gaming system. You wanted to roleplay...you do one post then say you are quitting because it is too fast...I give a way around that, but oh no, it is impossible to overcome this minor obstacle. You just makes excuses to not do things and don't listen. You are not showing logic. You can only do Zelda Rp...no, in fact, you quit rp...make up your mind which it is! I am extremely angry now. I let it drop when you came into one of my threads and called it stupid, but this is too much and it is very GUTLESS. If you have something to say about someone on the board, you should try dealing with it in a more mature manner, and the fact is, this was not even an issue on the board, this was in msn messenger! You are now blocked and will remain so. I tried to offer advice on what to do to change your situation, since you whine about it so much, but you just go and spit it in peoples faces. Obstacles are overcome by trying to overcome them and by keeping on trying, not by quitting at the first hurdle.


A little harsh, Graelwyn. I am disappointed.


I do not really care if you are disappointed. Since you were not involved in the whole thing, the point is moot. You did not see all because some was removed from other posts. This is closed now. I prefer for it not to be resurrected as it is clear we resolved our differences. Thankyou.


Sorry. I realise it was completely inappropriate for me to become involved. I will not do this again. Please forgive me. I am very sorry. It was none of my business. Please disregard what I said.


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