Are you a b***h magnet?

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b*****s remind me of hyenas, they lurk around in packs looking for someone who is maybe grazing quietly, minding their own business. As soon as they see a solitary one, their razor-sharp predatory instinct hones in on them and they start salivating with anticipation...then they move in for the attack! How to handle a b***h attack? I wish I knew. My one hope is that because they are so horrible to everyone else it will eventually come back at them, under the law of 'what goes around comes around'. Hope so anyway.

I have had similar. Once, I was in the grocery store. I was staring at the tabloids display, pretending to read. There was this couple behind me, and the guy asked how I was doing. I was startled and annoyed. I hadn't expected anyone to try to socialize from behind me. Plus, I knew the cashier was about to ask the same thing, and I was only prepared for that. I muttered something like, "You startled me," and he kept talking. I ignored him and after getting my purchase rung up, hastily left the store. I came out into the parking lot, and there he was again. He called out loudly, "What's the matter? You lost?"
I wanted to ask him why the f-k he kept talking to me. But I ignored him again and walked away. I stayed upset for quite awhile.

The evil people in my world seem to belong to the NT female passive-aggressive tribe.

Like the landlord who put the wrong kind of paint on the stairs so that two years ago I slipped and severely injured my shoulder and have had one surgery and was just told today I need another surgery, but this bit$h when we tried to move out threatened legal action to the point of having somebody wake us up at 6:30 one morning to serve us papers...

Or my co-instructor for a course in which two of our students are failing but she's putting all the work and responsibility and heart-ache (who wants to be the one to tell nursing students to pick another career?) on me, even though she's way senior to me and this is my very first faculty post...

Or the last time I was excited about a job they sent me a rejection letter without even a back-up candidate - it's not that they had someone better, she just didn't want ME...

I could go on. The pattern seems to be women, and I"m told women can get jealous. Maybe that's it. I'll just stay away from all NT women!

Actually, I always thought of this phenomenon as attracting bastards, not b*****s.

I know how you feel.

Well, the deal is, there's SO MUCH crap out there in the world, it's hard to judge one's "fair share", but it's roughly equivalent to a hell of a lot. Seriously. I think I bring out the b***h in regular women, rather than attract women everyone already knows are b*****s. In other words, they're bored with me until they figure out: "Ah! This guy doesn't know how to defend himself socially -- I think I'll stab him and see what happens."

But anyways, you are not alone my friend!

Yes,I'm a b***h magnet.

I'm also a pervert magnet.


-SpaceCase

Yeah, I'm a b***h (and bastard) magnet, as you may see though, with the examples I am about to give, I usually fare better (I tend to make sure of that ):

All those who bullied me at school - I was bullied for being different/unpopular. These people put me through hell for years.
Their current situation - many have had kids and did so just after leaving school, the fathers of these children unsurprisingly didn't stick around. Some are hooked on drugs and are in debt to drug dealers. One of my old bullies is dead after being involved in a car crash because of his breaks failing, two days after his drug dealer threatened to kill him, hmmmmm.....
My current situation in comparison - I paid attention in sex education and know what contraception is, hence I don't have kids at the moment. I don't do drugs (nothing heavy in particular), I have a degree, am well educated and am planning a career in biological sciences where, eventually I will earn lots of money. Not so great now, are you guys? Fancy that, people putting me through hell when they were always going to be lagging far behind me
My ex best friend - she betrayed me by suddenly slagging me off behind her back. But then she never had anything nice to say about anyone physically or personality wise. She had no room to talk given as her looks could shatter a mirror and she had an awful personality to boot.
Her current situation - at the age of 26 (bear in mind she is NT people) no one loves her, she has still never been kissed or had a boyfriend ever and she is uglier than ever before, and more bitter and twisted than she ever was. She even has a moustache now, thanks to the fact that she used to shave it all the time, and her eyebrows join up worse than Bert and Ernie's from Sesame Street. My advice to her would be to take a look in the mirror before criticising other people.
My current situation in comparison - I know what love is and how to treat people in a dignified manner. I don't feel I have to treat people like s**t to make up for my misgivings. I have misgivings like any other person and acknowledge this, but do not direct them at others.
Them two wenches in the Sea Cadet Corps - I went on a course with the SCC and these two women persistently bullied me throughout and blamed everything that went wrong on me and my friends. The made nasty jibes about my weight telling me I wasn't womanly and will never give birth naturally. And they were much older than me too. Well I am so sorry that you wenches are stuck with kids you didn't want, how about keeping your legs closed or using contraceptives you cowardly pair of witches???
Their current situation - unsure, not seen them since, probably still the fake b*****s they ever were.
My current situation in comparison - I am not fake and don't bully people and do not have kids I didn't want (only comparisons I could make really).
That big bully in Northampton - he enjoyed nothing more than watching someone suffer every week. He made things up about people and got others to spread it all around and isolate or bully you. So the others around him were no better either.
His current situation - still stuck in the place where he controls everyone claiming he hates it.
My situation in comparison - back where I belong earning more money than that sweaty fat bastard is .
That b***h from Northampton - well she is actually from Portugal but hey. She was the evil assistant of the sweaty bastard from Northampton. She pretended to be my friend in order to harm me - b***h!! !! Now that sweaty bastard has turned against her, she can no longer victimise people as she could as she isn't strong enough to do it alone. She has told others that she is upset over sweaty bastard, claiming that she thought he was a friend. No, b***h, the only reason why you are upset is because you don't get VIP front row seats to other people's misery anymore. Mind you, it must make you really really bitter knowing that you put yourself on a plate and yet no one will take you because you have a jaw on you like a f*****g breeze block eh?
Her current situation - still using a vibrator as still no one will touch her, with no real friends or anything (violins anyone?). The last fella she had wouldn't have sex with her and then later claimed he was gay
My current situation in comparison - I have a boyfriend that will actually touch me, lots of friends (well enough, more that her) and I am only evil when I have to be as opposed to making it my occupation to make my life more interesting. Sad b***h from Northampton - get a f*****g life, love!! !! !
My boyfriend's ex f**k buddy - upon meeting her she refused to talk to me, but seemed to take great delight in flirting with MY boyfriend about her supposed porno pictures (she really rates herself but really isn't that special) and about how beautiful her breasts are (more like heavy and droopy). Sad, desperate cow, go away and get a personality. How in f**k's name did you think you would appeal to me by behaving like that? We all know you're a slut, but please do it in your own time???? Some of us actually have lives to lead and you are merely a fly on my window that needs swatting.
Her current situation - I feel sorry for her in one sense as she was treated badly by her partner some years ago, so she of all people should know how to behave. She is not exactly well liked by a certain group of us as she acts like she is a bit special. Other than that I haven't seen her since she offended me that day.
My current situation in comparison - I don't have to flirt with exes to get some attention, I can just be me.

Fiz, your story is very encouraging.

Thank you LadyCass, I like to help wherever possible and if that means telling people about stuff thats gone on with me then so be it. Plus you learn things from people who mess with you and, hopefully, you never turn out like them and become much better than they ever will be.

So true.

I am constantly at odds with people who will use the worst means to gain power over others and, when exerting that power, will cause misery, loss, pain, and death.

I attract woman that get called b***h but I don't consider them to be so. They just happen to have opinions and are good at voicing them.

No, but I seem to attract sluts... >.<

Fiz, that is quite a journey...I admire you for going through all that and emerging from it as the wonderful person you are.

I think I don't attract people very much which saves me from a lot of trouble. I have this talent for blending in and staying uninteresting/unnoticed.....from time to time I would feel lonely, but now I learned to stay content with my situation and appreciate what I have...because I found out that the 'true friendship' or 'true love' or 'closeness' that I've been searching for was largely illusional/delusional. I think it's also related to breaking out of my narcissistic world and growing out of egocentricity.

Lucky you.