My life dreams have died today.

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dachsowned
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26 Feb 2016, 7:57 pm

You have a point. A truly intelligent person would not respond to this by retreating into 151 and Coke.[/quote]


Maybe a nice weissbier, a good IPA or a belt of bacon infused bourbon! You sound like an interesting and intelligent guy, and don't let one b**tch steal your dream. Find your lawyer, get yourself to the school of your choice, and be glad you're you, and be doubley glad you're not her! :D :D :D



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26 Feb 2016, 8:19 pm

For some reason, I feel Dachowned owns a Dachshund! I like Dachshunds myself. They are hard to take care of, though.



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26 Feb 2016, 11:31 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
For some reason, I feel Dachowned owns a Dachshund! I like Dachshunds myself. They are hard to take care of, though.


I'm owned by one!! He's spoiled rotten, which is just how he likes it. They're not too bad to take care of, but very difficult to house train. The term "accident" is a euphemism for being too lazy to ask to go out! But he's a love bug and my best friend. :heart:



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26 Feb 2016, 11:38 pm

dachsowned wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
For some reason, I feel Dachowned owns a Dachshund! I like Dachshunds myself. They are hard to take care of, though.


I'm owned by one!! He's spoiled rotten, which is just how he likes it. They're not too bad to take care of, but very difficult to house train. The term "accident" is a euphemism for being too lazy to ask to go out! But he's a love bug and my best friend. :heart:


When I was a child we had a jack russell and my dad scolded her for something. She immediately jumped up on his recliner, knowing full well he's the only person that used it, and took a giant dookie while staring at him. She was very obstinate, very very cute, but very obstinate. So yeah, at least you only have to deal with legitimate accidents, lol.



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26 Feb 2016, 11:59 pm

None of my RL friends responded to my texts today, so I just deleted them from my phone.

I have no reason to wake up in the morning. Not anymore.



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27 Feb 2016, 12:10 am

you have a strong tendency to over-react. take that into account before you make any big decisions. last time it was fake concert tickets that had you going. now it's a false statement and some unreturned texts. try hard to calm yourself and get all the info before reacting.



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27 Feb 2016, 12:17 am

cathylynn wrote:
you have a strong tendency to over-react. take that into account before you make any big decisions. last time it was fake concert tickets that had you going. now it's a false statement and some unreturned texts. try hard to calm yourself and get all the info before reacting.


^^genius.



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27 Feb 2016, 12:29 am

It does not matter how I react when alcohol is my only true friend in the world.



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27 Feb 2016, 12:43 am

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not trying to be rude or anything, I am just asking out of curious. but what is severe Asperger syndrome? I have heard of severe autism and Asperger Syndrome before, but never severe Asperger syndrome. I was dianosed with Aspergers myself at age 14 in 2005.... as a child I had a lot of dreams but most of them never became real at all... like driving a 1980's Car or having a huge expensive home... I do not have a job but get a disabelty payment...

My understanding is much like how Autism is measured in severity, Asperger's is measured the same way.



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27 Feb 2016, 12:44 am

try to get some sleep. things might look a lot better in the morning.



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27 Feb 2016, 12:50 am

KagamineLen wrote:
It does not matter how I react when alcohol is my only true friend in the world.

That's not a road you want to walk down. Take a moment to collect yourself, and take care of your physical needs (I know I sometimes get down when I haven't eaten). Where there's a will there's a way, smart guy like you should be able to figure it out given some time.



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27 Feb 2016, 2:16 am

Bacterium piss is never your friend. There's a reason it tasted horrible before you forced yourself to like it.


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27 Feb 2016, 2:26 am

This is just one day. Call someone who would know for sure. That's not true. Not here, at least. My neighbor works with people who have disabilities. Being a student doesn't disqualify you. You'd probably qualify for more benefits. It's about finding the right person to answer your questions. She's just not the one, and she probably doesn't know what she's even talking about.

And about bad friends: let them go. Your issues are important. You should also consider that maybe they were busy or they have issues, too. Maybe they are worth letting go of. Right now, just focus on your dreams and not others. People can let you down, BUT you don't have to stay down.

Keep on dreaming. If you keep working at it, you will see your dreams actualized. It's just time to get a bit tougher at going after it. Just ask yourself what is the next step? If you need advice, I'm here to help. I'm sure there are others that are even more knowledgeable than I am.



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27 Feb 2016, 12:55 pm

Feeling somewhat better, while slowly adjusting to the reality that I have very few friends and no real reason to get out of bed on the weekends.

I just fired my 12-step sponsor this morning. If he really cared about whether or not I lived or died, he would not be ignoring my text messages.

So this is what it all comes down to. I woke up without a hangover even though I drank most of a fifth of 151 yesterday. My alcohol tolerance is through the roof.

Gaming is my purpose in life now. Single player gaming, especially. I have no other reason to get out of bed at this point. Most of my so-called friends would be quite happy if I were to drop dead today. I am not going to give them that satisfaction.

I was going to take a vacation this summer. Instead, I will buy a PS4 with my tax refund check.

I plan on hitting the liquor store when it opens today. Pick up some more rum.

This is my life now.



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27 Feb 2016, 3:29 pm

This is not the life you want to live.

Please try to text your friends again.

You really should take that vacation.

Please, sir.....don't go down that drunken road again.



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27 Feb 2016, 3:38 pm

Yes, stay clear of the alcohol! It only leads to one destination -- the grave!

Like others have already stated, check on the information you've been given. It makes no sense to me that your disability would be cut off while you're acquiring a degree.


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