Sick of getting hurt

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Nope it's definitely over.

Kraftie is right though, there are more people to meet and even though this wasn't the one I've got other opportunities

Just really, really hurts when nothing has worked out so far with any guy ever. My self confidence just crumples more and more. It seems like I'll never find anyone that likes me.

I'm pretty open to the different kinds of guys I like. I've met all sorts and been up for being more than friends... just none of them feel the same. I don't even get any unwanted interest.

Why do other people get to be loved and not me? Whats so awful about me?

You'd think at some point one of them would actually like me.

I feel really stupid like I must have done something that's messed everything up... again... Like I always do.

I dont know, it’s same for me.

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I am sorry to hear that happened to you, hurtloam. You are definitely not alone in this issue.

I can relate. I have the same problem. I go on dates with guys and after like 2 dates they always say they "don't feel a connection" and I never hear from them again. I feel like I'm trash nobody wants.

The worst thing about this though is that there was a connection. That's why I feel so hurt.

When you're trash nobody wants, you don't get a date in the first place, ever.

I'm not coping today.

^^^^ I'm so sorry to hear that. Hugs...

(((hurtloan)))

Not coping. I don't want to cry because it makes my head hurt.

I felt like that yesterday and for most of last week. I'm feeling more hopeful today; I hope you start to feel better soon too.

Glad you're feeling better fluffysaurus

I'm really annoyed. I could have been getting to know someone else and I wasted my time on him because he seemed genuinely interested in me and I got hurt for nothing.
I wish I'd never met him.

NTs seem to run very hot and cold. Maybe they don't and are giving out clear signals that we just can't pick up on but it feels like they turn in an instant. The man who I was convinced was about to ask me out came into the shop I work at with his Mrs so now I feel stupid. I can't even blame him fully for misleading me because I don't know for sure I didn't totally misread things. I'm not gutted over him just disappointed, and even less sure of myself than I was before.

I'm anxious over some medical tests which I think makes everything that goes wrong seem bigger than it is at the moment.

I had definite interest. Right in your face interest. The one person in the room that he wanted to talk to kind of interest.

And then something went wrong and I don't know what I said or did.

You know what. I think I have an irrational fear of abandonment and I don't know why.

There's really no logical reason why I'm flaking out right now.

I need to let go and just go with the flow.