RockDrummer616 wrote:
"homophobic, bigot, racist, ignorant, selfish"
These are not insults. If someone is calling you this, it's probably true. If you said something to deserve one of these, then you probably started it.
Oh good Lord.
Here's a fun little story for you: at the age of 8, I moved from an admittedly typical Southern town in Georgia to a little town in Ohio. I had a Southern accent, I was a lot more laid back than everyone else, and it was easy to tell that I wasn't from around there. You want to know the amount of times I was called a racist, simply for having lived in the South? I was even asked at one point, in complete seriousness, if I was part of the Ku Klux Klan. I hadn't even said a single word to some of these people (and there were no non-whites in our entire grade, if that makes a difference). I'm not even full white, although it doesn't show.
And you know what the funny thing is? That school up in Ohio was 99.9% white. There were exactly two kids in the entire high school who were black. Now that I'm back in Georgia, I realized the town I grew up in (and am back in) is maybe 50% white. The kids in Ohio were so much less accepting of them; they called them racial slurs, immediatly assumed they were walking stereotypes, and out and out refused to work with them; I was horrified to be anywhere near some of the more outspoken racist ones. In Georgia, no one cares; it makes no difference to most people about who is from where or has what skin.
Yet I'm an automatic racist because I come from the South. Glad to know I deserve that title. They said so, so it's true! Mind you, I wouldn't trust anything they said, but oh well.
Seriously, people are quick to make snap judegments without knowing anything. Those kinds of terms are thrown around because they make people react, and that's what the instigator wants. It's a button that's easy to set off.
It's not even about actual views and ideals anymore. I would have voted for McCain in the last election, had I been old enough at the time. It's not that I agree in general with the Republican ideals, because I don't, but because I felt that he would have been the better one, and I'm entitled to that opinion. Do you know why I think that? No, of course you don't, because I haven't told you. But to some people, that automatically means I'm homophobic or racist or some such thing. It's not about what I believe, because people don't know that: it's about a snap judgement.
Which is why I don't participate in politics in general. The "accept everyone" party usually annoys me, because "everyone" means "everyone who agrees with us." The "WASP males only" party annoys me, because, well "WASP males only." Everyone's always fighting without bothering to take time to think, and it's not worth it.
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Three years!