he still won't leave it alone.

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It's not even whining. It's talking things out. It's confiding.

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Last edited by The_Face_of_Boo on 06 Mar 2011, 9:07 am, edited 1 time in total.

What goes around comes around? So you're saying she deserved rape? Get out.

no.
when i'm trying to attract a partner, i don't act desperate.
it's a fact, desperation is a turn off.

i'm not trying to start a relationship with my boyfriend.
i got him BECAUSE i wasn't desperate.
fact.

if hurting me more than i was makes you feel better, please continue.
i'd swap my life for his cushy little life in a second, if not getting a girl is the biggest of his problems, he has it easy.

I did. I still do.

No you don't. You don't deserve anymore pain, especially after what you've been through. No innocent person is deserving of pain. And you are guilty of nothing.

I am sorry , I didn't read the whole thread, I thought she was complaining about how her bf would leave her because she's been complaining.

Nope, that certainly not what I meant. I am sorry emlion if that how it sounded.

f**k off Boo, this is not the time or the place

^ hell no.
i'd say beat on me all you want if i was complaining over something so trivial.

i'm worried he'll leave me because i'm damaged.
and if i explain it all to him, he'll know just how damaged in my head i am.

But he loves you. He's not going to leave you because of what has happened to you. It doesn't change who you are

doesn't it?

Hun,
just be honest with him. If you don't then there'll always be a distance between you.
And no, you DON'T deserve to be raped. Nobody deserves that.

He didn't leave you before, so he won't leave you now.

Do you think it does? I'm not sayingg it has no effect on you, obviously this is massive, but you are still the person he loved before. That's not going to change

i don't know if i can be miss. bubbly, everyone be happy, let's bake a f*****g cake anymore.
not for a while anyway.

It's pretty easy to be insecure in situations like that... but the facts are that when you told him everything before, even when you shouted at him and refused to be taken to the hospital, he still wanted to help you out. He was there for you then, and the most likely scenario is that he'll be there for you this time too. I hope you feel better soon!