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06 Mar 2011, 10:07 am

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i told them everything i know.
they said they'd 'update' me on monday.


You should demand that he gets put in custody.


i don't know where he is.
he doesn't have a static address or anything.

@Jonsi - i don't feel unsafe when i'm here, it's just having to go ouside.



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06 Mar 2011, 10:08 am

and i have to go to work tomorrow morning.



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06 Mar 2011, 10:10 am

Can you get Stephan to accompany you to work and then meet you on the way back? That way you don't have to be alone.


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06 Mar 2011, 10:13 am

i work from 9 - 12, he works from 8 - 6.
but the people at work are lovely.
i can probably get one of them to give me a lift.



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06 Mar 2011, 10:14 am

You sure you can't take a day off? Or is being alone with your thoughts bad?



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06 Mar 2011, 10:15 am

Definately get them to pick you up. If you trust them, you might want to tell them that he attacked you. That way they will understand why you're upset.


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06 Mar 2011, 10:17 am

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and i have to go to work tomorrow morning.


After what you've been through, no one would blame you if you took the day of. If you're really scared you could get some of that legal self-defense spray (not pepper spray, i think that's illegal)


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06 Mar 2011, 10:17 am

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You sure you can't take a day off? Or is being alone with your thoughts bad?


it's bad.
i'd probably end up cutting myself pretty badly.

@Alycat - i do trust them, well as much as i can people, i told them last time he hurt me, well not that i had a choice, it was pretty evident on my face.



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06 Mar 2011, 10:19 am

You could also request the police to have an officer to escort you in and out of your workplace until he is caught.

I do not know what the law is in Scotland but you could also consider buying some sort of personal defense weapon. A tazer for example would be ideal for you.



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06 Mar 2011, 10:21 am

I do hope you go to work then. D: Hopefully you'll have a lot to occupy you. And when you get, do rest and have a heated beverage of your choice. :D

And you have my email now, so you have someone to talk to if you happen to have no one. That is if my pms haven't made you dislike me. e_e



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06 Mar 2011, 10:22 am

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I do hope you go to work then. D: Hopefully you'll have a lot to occupy you. And when you get, do rest and have a heated beverage of your choice. :D

And you have my email now, so you have someone to talk to if you happen to have no one. That is if my pms haven't made you dislike me. e_e


i don't think i've ever recieved a PM from you.



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06 Mar 2011, 10:23 am

emlion wrote:
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I do hope you go to work then. D: Hopefully you'll have a lot to occupy you. And when you get, do rest and have a heated beverage of your choice. :D

And you have my email now, so you have someone to talk to if you happen to have no one. That is if my pms haven't made you dislike me. e_e


i don't think i've ever recieved a PM from you.
Did you get my PM?


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06 Mar 2011, 10:23 am

My boyfriend got me one of these:

http://sh-led.en.made-in-china.com/prod ... -003-.html

They're small but heavy, you can blind anyone with strobe lighting if it's even remotely gloomy and the nice swirly rim is designed to gouge eyes out..

Oh yeah, and because it's just a torch, it's perfectly legal!



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06 Mar 2011, 10:24 am

Dantac wrote:
You could also request the police to have an officer to escort you in and out of your workplace until he is caught.



i'd rather not be a hassle to anyone.
i'll be fine.



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06 Mar 2011, 10:24 am

Alycat wrote:
emlion wrote:
Jonsi wrote:
I do hope you go to work then. D: Hopefully you'll have a lot to occupy you. And when you get, do rest and have a heated beverage of your choice. :D

And you have my email now, so you have someone to talk to if you happen to have no one. That is if my pms haven't made you dislike me. e_e


i don't think i've ever recieved a PM from you.
Did you get my PM?


No.



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06 Mar 2011, 10:25 am

emlion wrote:
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I do hope you go to work then. D: Hopefully you'll have a lot to occupy you. And when you get, do rest and have a heated beverage of your choice. :D

And you have my email now, so you have someone to talk to if you happen to have no one. That is if my pms haven't made you dislike me. e_e


i don't think i've ever recieved a PM from you.
Oh. Well, nothing to worry about then.

And hassle? It's their job to protect.



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