he still won't leave it alone.

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06 Mar 2011, 11:52 am

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i'll definitely go once and see how it goes from there.
she's very nice. but, i'm a coward so i usually chicken out. D:

I may sound harsh at the minute but face it! It's hard to talk about the feelings and memories you deliberately repress, I'm dreading doing it myself but I think it's essential to truly move on. Burying things inside only saves them for later, as I'm currently discovering.

Yep. Well i'm definitely forcing myself to go once.
so little steps. if it helps i'll go again.

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06 Mar 2011, 11:56 am

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Yep. Well i'm definitely forcing myself to go once.
so little steps. if it helps i'll go again.

I hope it does.

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06 Mar 2011, 12:02 pm

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You could also request the police to have an officer to escort you in and out of your workplace until he is caught.

i'd rather not be a hassle to anyone.
i'll be fine.

As long as that lunatic is out there, you need protection!

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06 Mar 2011, 12:04 pm

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emlion wrote:

Dantac wrote:

You could also request the police to have an officer to escort you in and out of your workplace until he is caught.

i'd rather not be a hassle to anyone.
i'll be fine.

As long as that lunatic is out there, you need protection!

i will just not from cops.

i called one of the guys i work with, i'm going to hang out there after my shift until stefan gets home.
if i'm around there, he won't be able to get near me.
the mechanic guys are a bit scary.

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06 Mar 2011, 12:13 pm

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i work in a garage, will a spanner do? :wink:

You need something more practical and hurtful.

And I don't get it why you don't want to ask for the aid of the police.

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06 Mar 2011, 12:14 pm

they've not been my friends in the past.

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06 Mar 2011, 12:16 pm

emlion wrote:

Lonermutant wrote:

emlion wrote:

Dantac wrote:

You could also request the police to have an officer to escort you in and out of your workplace until he is caught.

i'd rather not be a hassle to anyone.
i'll be fine.

As long as that lunatic is out there, you need protection!

I just hope that they get chris behind bars and that he'll actually get a sentence that puts him away while you rebuild your life.

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06 Mar 2011, 12:17 pm

i hope so too.
enough is enough.

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06 Mar 2011, 12:17 pm

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they've not been my friends in the past.

That doesn't matter, it's their job to protect and they're probably the most equipped to do so. Put your personal sensitivity against them aside for a while.

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06 Mar 2011, 12:19 pm

well i don't have much of a choice about seeing them tomorrow, because the police lady said she was coming back anyway.

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06 Mar 2011, 12:19 pm

Btw, is he the same guy that you said you didn't want him to be arrested because he saved your life once?

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06 Mar 2011, 12:19 pm

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Btw, is he the same guy that you said you didn't want him to be arrested because he saved your life once?

yes.
and i still feel like i'm betraying him.
and i know i shouldn't.

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06 Mar 2011, 12:25 pm

emlion wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Btw, is he the same guy that you said you didn't want him to be arrested because he saved your life once?

yes.
and i still feel like i'm betraying him.
and i know i shouldn't.

The problem is that people change. You can't let the fact that he once was a friend and helped you be more important than the fact that he just raped you! You have to let that go. You have Stefan and the guys at the garage now. Stefan is your boyfriend and the guys are your colleagues and friends.
A person that hurts you, no matter what loyalty you have had to that person in the past, is not a person you should have any loyalty to chris anymore.

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06 Mar 2011, 12:25 pm

He betrayed you long ago when he hit you the first time. He owes you for sticking with him past that.

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06 Mar 2011, 12:27 pm

i know, my head knows.
but it's hard.
but i did report him - eventually.
better late than never, i think.

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06 Mar 2011, 12:28 pm

Indeedly so. You're getting better now and that's all that matters. D:

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