Fear of being alone for the rest of my life

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03 May 2006, 6:57 am

I never even posted in this thread! Why did you bring me up? You're OBSESSED with me. just SHUT UP!



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03 May 2006, 11:55 am

lol florescent was talking to emp


whats a matter florescent is big bad emp hurting you? :P



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03 May 2006, 1:43 pm

Maybe I don;t have the right to joke with you hale bopp. Could we reinstate that right? I am sorry. Is that enough?, I would die if you would just be friends, lik with me like Carla. I don't love you, I just want as little enemies as possible. Emp lacks tact, and both of you are getting on my nerves. I will have compassion though, because of issues we all have. I was referring how you 2 teamed up on gerrit in the chatroom. I also observered actions myself, for my own safety. You see jman?, I only act that way to people I feal threatened by. You are annoying Hale bopp, that is how I feal. Could we stop this ship? Big bad emp is worse than I am, but he is annoying also, in the same way Hale bopp is. Give me an inch hale bopp and I will give you a ruler. No one will touch you, I will support you if anyone picks on you, with words. I have many gifts for you. Could we be done? I acknowledge my resentment and behavior, I am done.



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07 May 2006, 1:03 am

I hate being alone as well. I'm having the same problems, except with friends my same sex as well as boyfriends. I still keep on going, and as a Christian I know that God will always be with me, and that He'll help me to make at least one close friend. I know that there's probably someone special out there for you, just as there is for pretty much everyone else. I know exactly what you mean when you say that you hate being alone; I used to like it a little more, but now sometimes I just cannot stand it.


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10 May 2006, 11:20 am

I'm sorry I hadn't been in here for awhile. I had a relationship with wolfgurl but she's freaking me out. I can't stand her. She's really three faced. She has major issues. Don't worry she never comes to the forum only to the chatroom. I hate that I had to break it up with her and hurt her but I can't stand getting freaked by her and being helpless.


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13 May 2006, 12:13 am

One bit of advise that almost everyone needs to know is that people should wait for the right person in their lives and not go the whole-9-yards (for an analogy). I know what it feels like to be alone, and I'm still waiting for that special someone, even if I'm only 17 years old. From what I've been told, there's always a special match for almost any person in the world, and it takes time to find it. You could probably make friends with the same sex, and then build close relationships like that, and then maybe if you get intimate enough you could ask about how to find a date, and maybe they could help you with tips and what not. There's also clubs with singles in it, and lots of the time (from what I heard to say again) there are singles groups out there for people with certain disorders or differences who want to find a mate. That's probably the best advice I could give you at the moment; if I could give you anymore advice on this subject I'll post on here again, if it's useful to you of course.


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19 May 2006, 1:08 am

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I think everyone knows about me and Fiz. I just want to say that I was wrong. I don't know what came over me. I just thought she and I could be more than friends. I don't why every time I try to make friends with the opposite sex it always ends that way. I must have scared her away. I just don't want to know that I'll be alone for the rest of my life. I hate being alone. I've been alone for the first half of my life so why can't I find someone some girl who I'll give my all to her? I so need to be in love. I think one of my intrests must be trying and failing to have a relationship with some girl. I just want to let everyone know that I also have OCD and I'm still suffering through Depression. I hate being depressed all the time when I want to be happy but the fear of being alone really scares me. Scares me to death. I hate it.


Why should being alone be so scary? Then, you can indulge in your most deep interests. You don't have to worry about taking time out because your partner, or girlfriend, wants to do this or that. You don't have to worry about all the conflicts that a relationship will bring. You don't have to worry about rejection. You've got us, and nobody here will reject you.

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03 Jul 2006, 9:34 am

I have a great fear of being alone and dying alone. I wish I could be cured of feeling guilt for everything I do. It is not like being alone in a library or travelling I could be there all day. It is being alone among people everyday and not being able to do what I want to do ever.



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04 Jul 2006, 6:59 pm

My own thread has gotten into another turn around by someone else. Can we get back on track here. I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life. For me isolation isn't great. After one girl screwed with my heart I felt different after that. No longer wanting to be alone. I want someone who I can trust and love oh will also love me back. I actually think this should have been in the romatic section.


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05 Jul 2006, 7:47 pm

i intend on being alone for the rest of my life so i really can't relate.


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18 Dec 2010, 7:33 pm

I am so use to being alone now If I did meet someone I would feel they were intruding. :roll:


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