he still won't leave it alone.

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05 Mar 2011, 3:40 pm

no.
just here.
i don't know anyone else.

i can't go outside.
i can't.



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05 Mar 2011, 3:40 pm

No you don't. You're a wonderful person. You deserve better. Reality isn't kind to anyone, however, and no one no matter how great is exempt. But you don't deserve any more pain. You deserve love and kindness.



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05 Mar 2011, 3:41 pm

emlion wrote:
like he told me, he has nothing to lose.


So he won't mind a little spell behind bars and you'll get some peace...



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05 Mar 2011, 3:42 pm

there's nothing i can do.
i reported him when he hit me and look whats happened.
i can't even do that right.



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05 Mar 2011, 3:44 pm

emlion wrote:
no.
just here.
i don't know anyone else.

i can't go outside.
i can't.


ok Emlion, then you and your bf need to go book a hostel or a hotel somewhere on the other side of town for a couple of nights.

It won't make the problem go away, but it'll give you some room to think without him breathing all over you and you can come up with your own plan on how you're going to wrench your life back from him.

And don't expect us to believe you deserve this- give us one single reason why anyone would!



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05 Mar 2011, 3:44 pm

He can't stay on the streets forever. Just get his details in the system, you did the right thing by reporting him - you're not a grass if that's what you're worried about.



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05 Mar 2011, 3:44 pm

That's not you doing something wrong, that's the negligence of the police. If anything, they're doing something wrong. And there is too something you can do. You just don't want him near you.

Has he really done anything to make you think he would hurt you?



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05 Mar 2011, 3:45 pm

he's a man.
men hurt me.



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05 Mar 2011, 3:47 pm

if he won't leave, i will.



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05 Mar 2011, 3:47 pm

Have I hurt you? :?

But Stefan won't, he loves you. Genuinely. He doesn't want to lose you as much as you don't want to lose him.



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05 Mar 2011, 3:50 pm

not yet.

i'm out.



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05 Mar 2011, 3:50 pm

emlion wrote:
he's a man.
men hurt me.


What about Stefan? Not all do. Youve just just some REALLY lousy guys in your life. And they need to get what's coming to them

Your local police sound extremely incompetent

It's not you though, it's them. I know that sounds like something people say all the time, but it's true

People like this are usually incredibly cowardly and get control over you by making you think it's all your own fault and you deserve it. That's BS though



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05 Mar 2011, 3:52 pm

emlion wrote:
not yet.

i'm out.


Please stay here if this is the only place you can talk.



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05 Mar 2011, 3:54 pm

I can't even bring myself to slap a mosquito when it bites. I could never hurt you. :D You're too lovable.

I won't stop you from leaving. I'll be thinking and hoping for you while you're gone. I hope things turn around. :\



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05 Mar 2011, 3:56 pm

not likely.
i'm going to find a bridge to jump off or something.
i'm sure he's out there, then i won't have to worry.



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05 Mar 2011, 3:57 pm

Yeah I wasn't trying to tell you what to do, just telling you in my own dumb way that we're here if you need to vent...