I HATE MY STEPMOTHER

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it might be an aspie thing but its also a me thing. Yes i know i need to move on and i will

If you ask me I think maybe your stepmum's primary ill feelings were aimed towards your mother (out of jealousy). And you were just an outlet for her jealous anger towards her, being her flesh and blood and all. She probably considered your attempts at breaking them apart your mother's handiwork.

Do you have any full blood/non-step siblings? If so does your stepmum treat them the same way?

Heres why i believe she hates me. I was a rival for his attention and for his resources because she wanted them for herself and her brats. My mum and dad cant stand each other it was like long before she came along. My attempts at trying to break them up. Had nothing to do with my mum. They were all me. Shes been very vocal saying i should forget him. MY MUM did not alienate me from them. They did it. She made my life hell and he did not stand up for me. Im an only child at least with my mum. On my dads side im not sure. His mates and him often joked about his womanizing ways so im not sure,

It sounds like your stepmom is manipulating you (and possibly your dad, too). And your dad is helping her. I hate my parents just as much as you hate yours. The degree to which parents are seen as superior to children in this society is unbelievable.

All I can say is that know that you are not alone and stay grounded in WHAT YOU KNOW TO BE THE TRUTH. Don't let your parents convince you otherwise. Also, anger and confronting your parents is NOT an overreaction to being scapegoated by the very people charged with nurturing and supporting you.

Its my dad and stepmother well hopefully soon to be ex step mum. Theyve now seperated. My mum is very seperate and supportive of me. She told me to forget him for years.