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09 Apr 2012, 9:07 am

A good way of permanantly stopping one of these pricks (BULLIES) requires an IRON BAR!



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09 Apr 2012, 10:20 am

Which causes a response from the police.

Your "solution" has to factor in social rumors, police, school staff, and the bullies. If you fail to factor everything in, you will fail to accomplish your goal.



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11 Apr 2012, 10:08 pm

Yeah, I was heavily bullied and picked on from elementary all throughout high school. My teachers never did anything about it but my mom would try to talk to the parents of the bullies and that just made things worse. Eh, not the best years of my life but I do think it made me a stronger person in the long run. I do believe bullies should be held more accountable for their actions though.


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12 Apr 2012, 12:06 am

I was bullied from childhood through adolescence. My mom would talk to the parents of the bullies and try and talk to my teacher and school principal. In 6th grade, the principal said I had to toughen up and in third grade, these two girls who were picking on me and following me around on the playground calling me "big fat ugly and stupid" stopped picking on me when my mom talked to the school and the duty ladies put a stop to it. Also that same year, the school counselor didn't want to do anything about the bullying on the bus because she said it make it worse. Instead she was telling me to sit away from them and ignore them. Also in 5th grade, my old best friend who was picking on me, my speech therapist and other school staff put a stop to it by making her sign a contract saying she won't bully me anymore or she will be expelled. But by 6th grade, everything was so bad, I had a nervous breakdown because by then, my school did s**t about the bullies because all the good staff left that school and worked at another school.



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24 Apr 2012, 2:39 pm

I wonder if bullies are even in private schools. Religious schools? I guess it depends on the school and what the staff does about it. Some schools expel students if they bully someone else. I say expel all bullies and let them never get an education. :evil:


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25 Apr 2012, 12:15 pm

The difference is if staff offers an welcoming and clamp down on bulling directly. Weather it's private or religious etc.. is likely irrelevant. Except that religious schools may have hangups on certain issues.