Am I Freakishly Annoying?

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20 Nov 2012, 5:53 am

I'm glad you're feeling better. For what it's worth (and I don't feel like I have any kind of presence on this forum, so it might be worth nothing) I've always found you funny, nice and an all around enjoyable person. You are no where near the most annoying person on this site, for me anyway. xD

But remember, even if you were the most awesome person on this planet there would be some people who would find the sheer force of your awesome annoying.

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20 Nov 2012, 6:01 am

AspieOtaku wrote:

I dunno why but sometimes I feel I am freakishly annoying even unintentionally, I get repetative and sometimes go youtube crazy postwise. :roll:

Well, I'm mildly annoyed, but that's only because I haven't a clue what you mean about going "youtube crazy postwise". Without a further explanation, that just makes no sense at all.

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20 Nov 2012, 6:05 am

AspieOtaku wrote:

Ok I guess its just me I feel guilty whenever I do I just sometimes go nuts when posting so many youtube videos esspecially when I am hyper and trying to be expressive and animated.IRL most NTs usually consider me either odd or freakishly annoying I feel guilty and hurt at the same time that happens.

Oh. Well that is annoying. I will rarely take the effort to watch youtube videos. They are no substitute for discussing an issue.

One thing that can help is to post an executive summary about what the video is about.

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22 Nov 2012, 1:35 am

I never thought of you as annoying,I like your video posts,I wish I knew how to do it.
I always worry that I have said something that has offended someone,I was really bad at blurting out things as a kid I'm better now but still slip up,then I get so down on myself.
I still cringe at some of the things I've said,once there was an elderly woman visiting us,she had a huge mole on her face and I couldn't stop staring,I asked what it was,she said it was a beauty mark.My reply,It's not beautiful why do you call it that.I kept asking her over and over,why do you call it that???I embarrassed my family sooooo much.I still embarrass my daughter sometimes.This makes me uncomfortable because I feel like I have to watch everything I say.Sigh.

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22 Nov 2012, 1:57 am

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I feel like that every day outside of WP and sometimes inside WP. Oh and the trick to posting YouTube videos is go to youtube looks for the video you want to post hightlight the url on the video right click it highlight copy and then go to WP to the thead you want to post it on and once you post reply left click the itty bitty youtube button a space that says enter the url right click again highlight paste and paste it and voila.

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22 Nov 2012, 5:54 am

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So I guess the answer is yes, I dont remember posting pervy vids in womens discussion though, I am sorry if I did I try to be silly, but I guess I cant even do that anymore. I behave better when Im depressed so I guess Ill just allow myself to sink into depression.Sorry for being myself, you are not obligated to forgive me for I do not expect forgiveness I am pretty sure a lot of people hate my guts anyway and wish I never existed.So I guess I have a good reason to feel guilty and ashamed for doing so Ill have to censor my personality completly or just probably quit WP either one is probably the best choice.

Totally straight, unloaded question: Did you intend for this post, and some that followed it, to be quite so passive aggressive?

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22 Nov 2012, 12:03 pm

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AspieOtaku wrote:

Totally straight, unloaded question: Did you intend for this post, and some that followed it, to be quite so passive aggressive?

I have been rather self conscious lately and it triggered me into a deep depression followed by hating myself.I felt ashamed for how I am like at times.I didnt attack anyone I focused my hatred on myself as well as take others negative comments onto myself it tends to manifest into a meltdown or shutdown.

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23 Nov 2012, 6:55 pm

Dude all I have to say is that your awesomely funny!

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23 Nov 2012, 10:07 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:

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Hate to rain on your parade but I'm only saying the following to be helpful;

Most of the time I've noticed the problem is not the volume of videos you post but the content of them, especially when they're inappropriate to post in the context of the thread or post you're replying to or forum you're posting in (posting pervy videos in womens discussion for example).

So I guess the answer is yes, I dont remember posting pervy vids in womens discussion though, I am sorry if I did I try to be silly, but I guess I cant even do that anymore. I behave better when Im depressed so I guess Ill just allow myself to sink into depression.Sorry for being myself, you are not obligated to forgive me for I do not expect forgiveness I am pretty sure a lot of people hate my guts anyway and wish I never existed.So I guess I have a good reason to feel guilty and ashamed for doing so Ill have to censor my personality completly or just probably quit WP either one is probably the best choice.

Okay, judging from your response I'm guessing it's not intentional, but I really think you should look again at this particular interaction. You solicited feedback, received it, but then reacted by lashing out at the person giving the feedback, albeit in a very passive aggressive manner. Yes, you're attacking yourself, but you're doing it in such a way as to make another person to feel guilty or upset at having "caused" you to feel that way. Again, I'm trying to be constructive here, passive aggressive behavior is a major trigger for some people, and if you don't know you're doing it you can't do anything to correct it.

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23 Nov 2012, 10:54 pm

I wasn't lashing out I was apologizing there was no sarcasm I was serious with what I said because I started feeling real guilty then and there.I was breaking down into tears and took it the wrong way and allowed it to manifest into negative self hating thoughts I don't mean to lash out at anyone but turn it all onto myself because honestly I don't think of myself as important as others at times.

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24 Nov 2012, 2:52 am

I really have that same problem, AspieOtaku. I empathize with what you are getting at.

It's just that my poor social skills have caused problems for me, too, which I have mentioned numerous times.

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31 Jan 2013, 2:09 am

Well I guess I annoyed someone today unintentionally now I feel like complete and utter crap! :cry:

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31 Jan 2013, 2:26 am

It doesn't bother me. I just don't like seeing multiple off topic posts if I'm watching a thread for new replies.

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31 Jan 2013, 2:31 am

EmoGlambertAspie wrote:

It doesn't bother me. I just don't like seeing multiple off topic posts if I'm watching a thread for new replies.

Im sorry I just try to cheer up with funny stufff and happy music but I guess I cant even do that I fail in bringing joy to others even when I try.

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31 Jan 2013, 2:44 am

I think the stuff you post is cute but if I were you I'd post a little advice and then, in the same post, "Here's something funny/cute to cheer you up" and a happy video

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31 Jan 2013, 2:57 am

EmoGlambertAspie wrote:

I think the stuff you post is cute

but if I were you I'd post a little advice and then, in the same post, "Here's something funny/cute to cheer you up" and a happy video

It probably wont do much because everything I say is completely incoherant so its best I should stop posting for a while. I'm a totally annoying moron who can't do anything right and make things worse even if it wasn't the intention.

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