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02 Apr 2014, 5:54 pm

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He got upset at a thread on the womens' forum he posted on, because he posted a video that was irrelevant to the discussion and a couple of women were upset about it and asked him not to post that sort of thing. Then another woman made a post saying that men shouldn't be allowed to posted in womens' discussion. Most disagreed anyway.

But AspieOtaku has been blowing it all out of proportion. He's been saying that the women were being sexist and excluding him, and bashing men. It is completely untrue, and unfair that he made those accusations. And he is making such a huge drama out of it all even though some have tried to explain it to him.

Now we are fed up, because he refuses to listen and he keeps trying to squeeze out sympathy from people.
Thats what got to me and triggered my meltdown and offended me thats when I had the negative vibe and slowly over reacted and it hurt my feelings bad and I went batshit crazy and in meltdown mode where I couldnt be rational or realize not everyone was agreeing with it. I got the wrong idea everyone was all sudden being sexist when it wasnt the case at all and I took things the wrong way.


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02 Apr 2014, 6:13 pm

It sounds as if you had a nice bike ride. Sometimes, going out in the real air, away from all the human crap, is the antidote.



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02 Apr 2014, 6:29 pm

if one doesn't put people up on a pedestal, it is much harder for them to disappoint one.



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02 Apr 2014, 6:45 pm

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if one doesn't put people up on a pedestal, it is much harder for them to disappoint one.
I will have to try to get myself to stop doing that. its a bad habit of mine and sometimes I think of myself below everyone else and that everyone else is happiness is more important than mine.


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02 Apr 2014, 6:47 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
if one doesn't put people up on a pedestal, it is much harder for them to disappoint one.
I will have to try to get myself to stop doing that. its a bad habit of mine and sometimes I think of myself below everyone else and that everyone else is happiness is more important than mine.

as long as nobody else is hurt, your happiness is just as important as anybody else's.



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02 Apr 2014, 6:57 pm

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auntblabby wrote:
if one doesn't put people up on a pedestal, it is much harder for them to disappoint one.
I will have to try to get myself to stop doing that. its a bad habit of mine and sometimes I think of myself below everyone else and that everyone else is happiness is more important than mine.

as long as nobody else is hurt, your happiness is just as important as anybody else's.
I dont like seeing people hurt and I don't want people to be down I just want to make other people happy at times, even when im not happy. I get desperate at times but also extremely down on myself depression starts to hit and sometimes I hate myself. My emotions end up like a rollarcoaster and sometimes I can swing from super possitive and goofy to extremely down and negative when I think i really upset someone without intention.


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02 Apr 2014, 7:03 pm

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I dont like seeing people hurt and I don't want people to be down I just want to make other people happy at times, even when im not happy. I get desperate at times but also extremely down on myself depression starts to hit and sometimes I hate myself. My emotions end up like a rollarcoaster and sometimes I can swing from super possitive and goofy to extremely down and negative when I think i really upset someone without intention.

when I get anywhere near that kind of feeling I like to change the channel and watch some other thoughts on my internal thought television. I find that analogy helps me a lot, maybe you could try it on for size yourself?



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02 Apr 2014, 7:09 pm

auntblabby wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
I dont like seeing people hurt and I don't want people to be down I just want to make other people happy at times, even when im not happy. I get desperate at times but also extremely down on myself depression starts to hit and sometimes I hate myself. My emotions end up like a rollarcoaster and sometimes I can swing from super possitive and goofy to extremely down and negative when I think i really upset someone without intention.

when I get anywhere near that kind of feeling I like to change the channel and watch some other thoughts on my internal thought television. I find that analogy helps me a lot, maybe you could try it on for size yourself?
I might have to try that I have to fight the habit of being so focused on the negative stuff.


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02 Apr 2014, 7:16 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
I dont like seeing people hurt and I don't want people to be down I just want to make other people happy at times, even when im not happy. I get desperate at times but also extremely down on myself depression starts to hit and sometimes I hate myself. My emotions end up like a rollarcoaster and sometimes I can swing from super possitive and goofy to extremely down and negative when I think i really upset someone without intention.

when I get anywhere near that kind of feeling I like to change the channel and watch some other thoughts on my internal thought television. I find that analogy helps me a lot, maybe you could try it on for size yourself?
I might have to try that I have to fight the habit of being so focused on the negative stuff.

I read it in a book about how to fix depression sans drugs or therapy.



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02 Apr 2014, 7:22 pm

auntblabby wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
I dont like seeing people hurt and I don't want people to be down I just want to make other people happy at times, even when im not happy. I get desperate at times but also extremely down on myself depression starts to hit and sometimes I hate myself. My emotions end up like a rollarcoaster and sometimes I can swing from super possitive and goofy to extremely down and negative when I think i really upset someone without intention.

when I get anywhere near that kind of feeling I like to change the channel and watch some other thoughts on my internal thought television. I find that analogy helps me a lot, maybe you could try it on for size yourself?
I might have to try that I have to fight the habit of being so focused on the negative stuff.

I read it in a book about how to fix depression sans drugs or therapy.
Im afraid of most medications due to the side effects and stories of people going on mass shootings after taking anti depressants. I did have a panic meltdown mode like this before near one of my friends and he gave me some marijuana and it calmed me down and my negative thoughts started to go away and I was relaxed, I couldn't think negative if I tried.


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02 Apr 2014, 7:23 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
I dont like seeing people hurt and I don't want people to be down I just want to make other people happy at times, even when im not happy. I get desperate at times but also extremely down on myself depression starts to hit and sometimes I hate myself. My emotions end up like a rollarcoaster and sometimes I can swing from super possitive and goofy to extremely down and negative when I think i really upset someone without intention.

when I get anywhere near that kind of feeling I like to change the channel and watch some other thoughts on my internal thought television. I find that analogy helps me a lot, maybe you could try it on for size yourself?
I might have to try that I have to fight the habit of being so focused on the negative stuff.

I read it in a book about how to fix depression sans drugs or therapy.
Im afraid of most medications due to the side effects and stories of people going on mass shootings after taking anti depressants. I did have a panic meltdown mode like this before near one of my friends and he gave me some marijuana and it calmed me down and my negative thoughts started to go away and I was relaxed, I couldn't think negative if I tried.

are you on medical pot now?



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02 Apr 2014, 7:27 pm

auntblabby wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
I dont like seeing people hurt and I don't want people to be down I just want to make other people happy at times, even when im not happy. I get desperate at times but also extremely down on myself depression starts to hit and sometimes I hate myself. My emotions end up like a rollarcoaster and sometimes I can swing from super possitive and goofy to extremely down and negative when I think i really upset someone without intention.

when I get anywhere near that kind of feeling I like to change the channel and watch some other thoughts on my internal thought television. I find that analogy helps me a lot, maybe you could try it on for size yourself?
I might have to try that I have to fight the habit of being so focused on the negative stuff.

I read it in a book about how to fix depression sans drugs or therapy.
Im afraid of most medications due to the side effects and stories of people going on mass shootings after taking anti depressants. I did have a panic meltdown mode like this before near one of my friends and he gave me some marijuana and it calmed me down and my negative thoughts started to go away and I was relaxed, I couldn't think negative if I tried.

are you on medical pot now?
No I probably should though I just don't like the smell at times and I don't smoke it very often. I probably should make the time to go down town pay about 60$ and get a card and a prescription though maybe edibles since my land lord does not allow smoking.


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02 Apr 2014, 7:29 pm

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I probably should though I just don't like the smell at times and I don't smoke it very often. I probably should make the time to go down town pay about 60$ and get a card and a prescription though maybe edibles since my land lord does not allow smoking.
glad to hear at least the pot helps you, as for me it is next to worthless. I had to find other ways to cope as I could not drown my sorrows nor smoke them out. "I can't inhale."



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02 Apr 2014, 8:25 pm

auntblabby wrote:
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I probably should though I just don't like the smell at times and I don't smoke it very often. I probably should make the time to go down town pay about 60$ and get a card and a prescription though maybe edibles since my land lord does not allow smoking.
glad to hear at least the pot helps you, as for me it is next to worthless. I had to find other ways to cope as I could not drown my sorrows nor smoke them out. "I can't inhale."
I think ill stay after all and not take things too extreme or get too extreme and keep my emotions in check.


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02 Apr 2014, 8:26 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
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I probably should though I just don't like the smell at times and I don't smoke it very often. I probably should make the time to go down town pay about 60$ and get a card and a prescription though maybe edibles since my land lord does not allow smoking.
glad to hear at least the pot helps you, as for me it is next to worthless. I had to find other ways to cope as I could not drown my sorrows nor smoke them out. "I can't inhale."
I think ill stay after all and not take things too extreme or get too extreme and keep my emotions in check.

that's the spirit :wtg:



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02 Apr 2014, 8:39 pm

auntblabby wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
I probably should though I just don't like the smell at times and I don't smoke it very often. I probably should make the time to go down town pay about 60$ and get a card and a prescription though maybe edibles since my land lord does not allow smoking.
glad to hear at least the pot helps you, as for me it is next to worthless. I had to find other ways to cope as I could not drown my sorrows nor smoke them out. "I can't inhale."
I think ill stay after all and not take things too extreme or get too extreme and keep my emotions in check.

that's the spirit :wtg:
Thanks for the advice it has helped a lot!


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