Some guy took advantage of me on a chatroom sexually .

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The sexual take control of me in times like that ..


And ps i attacked no one else but her

Actually you attacked my whole country.

I intended to stay completely out of this, but I thought I'd come back to make this one point.

Pedophilia is not, as many believe, being sexually attracted to a minor. Pedophilia is being sexually attracted to a prepubescent minor. After that it is ephebophilia - being sexually attracted to a pubescent or post-pubescent minor.

Yes yes i did and you excused pedophile .

It's not pedophile. You are 15 year old. You are a teenager, not a kid. You are already able to fall in love and make your own decisions. You are aware what sex means and what it can bring. And your body is ready for intercourse, unlike a body of a 9 year old kid. Long time ago girls your age all around the world were already married and mothers. It's a historical fact.

Don't suppose you are a innocent kid when you are not anymore. You are already post puberty and your body is ready for having a kid - thats why your hypersexuality got apparent. But you are not an wild animal to let your urges control you so you must make your own decisions and learn to control your body. A human doesn't get suddenly adult after hitting 18 year old. You don't become an adult within a day. 15-21 is the transition time. And you are already in the range. Your transition started. You can't depend on adults to guard you from making mistakes anymore because you are old enough to start making decisions on your own. They will be there for you if you get yourself into trouble but they can't make choices for you and can't control everything you do. You got your own brain, your own needs, your own privacy and you know enough about the world to start getting independent. You are old enough to know when to say "No" when someone tries to take advantage on you. And if your urges are too strong to control take a medicine, masturbate or something and don't blame other people for using you.

About my country - noone arranges marriages of kids. Didn't I say you must be 16 years old to be married? It's not being a kid. 16 year olds are nearly adults, they can decide for themselves. Also there are specific rules for such marriage. You can't just decide "you marry and thats it". The future husband must be at least 18 year old, the bride must be 16 year old, both have to agree for the marriage, parents of the bride must agree for the marriage and the government must decide the marriage is justifiable. As far I know the only reason acceptable by government for such kind of marriage is pregnancy. If the couple is just in love or the families want to arrange the marriage and the girl is not pregnant the government won't accept it and they will have to wait till the girl is 18 year old too if they really want to get married.

Last edited by Kiriae on 31 Dec 2014, 9:02 am, edited 1 time in total.

it seems to me that the original posters propensity for duplicating the initial words of their posts indicates a deliberate attempt to portray themselves as a "babe in the woods", and as such, i am dubious to the point where i will refrain from posting a reply.

As someone else who also has Hypersexuality I will say that it's really hard to "think straight" when it hits you. We do stupid stuff. I guess like a drug addict ("I can quit anytime I want!") except well... it's with sex.

Now with this guy, I think what happened was he was horny, you were horny, and like someone else said before kind of a win-win situation was what he thought. Now, I don't know if this person knew that you have Hypersexuality, becuase whether he did or didn't kinda changes the "Took advantage of me" part. If he did know, then it's like giving a drug addict some drugs, and I would say it is his fault. If he didn't know, then the responsibility is going to fall unto you unfortunately, especially since as Hypersexuals we can't really help ourselves. At 15 you do need to start being responsible and know your limits. For these situations alone, I avoid chatrooms at all costs. I only speak to certain people about sensitive things (thats also a part of my selective mutism which really helps) and I take other precautions to avoid certain situations that I know I won't be able to help myself in.

I also suggest finding as many legit and comfortable outlets as possible. Like a mate. Or just masturbate when you need to. Or something like those meetings people go to.

Why are you stammering in your text?

Damn, beat me to it. Something smells fishy here.

i think i led you to it.

but contest it if you need to in your own mind.

You guys are really late to the punch actually or teddy isn't telling all the facts like they are. The stammering and the Crona thread(most beta character out there). I private messaged him a couple days ago because of the thread where he threatened to cut himself. There were some inconsistencies in what he told me. He also sent me the supposed chat he had with the 25 year old. He claimed he was 17 in it.

whatever that means. "late to a punch" is not so bad if i consider it basically.

i do not care. why should i dig for the truth? i have no interest in it. the O.P is alive and that is all.
one day they will be dead.

it is all a small consequence in the unfolding of history.

it would be well to respond O.P. i do not believe you.

I posted before I read the whole thread, as I usually do.

t-the chat has an age limit of 16 and older .

I like cronas because he reminds me of myself .

And i'm sorry if it sounded like in the post I was going to cut but I really have issues with depression and i'm pretty volatile ...

I do it because I'm socially introverted .

And maybe you actually do, but you should have mentioned to these others that you said you were 17 to the 25 year old and not 15. The 25 year old didn't know you were 15. It is on you for being on a chat you were not technically old enough to be on. I really am sorry if these things did happen to you. I don't hate Crona either, he kind of reminds me of myself in a time I don't like to think about. But he is really beta, which makes it suspicious.