Remnant wrote:
dime_jaguar wrote:
Remnant wrote:
But she does have an obligation to contribute something to the relationship.
....OR its not a relationship, so you leave.
Considering what it seems to take to be fit to live in your world, I would rather not.
There are people who live in misery, think that the proper state of humankind is misery, that it is immoral for others to live with any kind of pleasure or joy, and who will perform actual sterilization of life to ensure this miserable state. They can spread their plague through other people. Those who leave relationships to get away from this often find themselves victims without anyone to stand by them. Who would, when they need the people who they abandoned?
As long as it is your condition that people who suffer through this stage should leave each other, you are wrong. You offer an expedient, not a solution.
Huh? You would rather stay in a relationship that is miserable, hurtful, and tormenting just so dont have to stand alone, however miserable that state may be? And its not a solution until it actually works, untill then its progress.
"If your not for yourself, then who will be?
If your not for others than what are you?
If not now, when?"
I love that quote, although i dont know who wrote it.
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