he still won't leave it alone.

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05 Mar 2011, 3:59 pm

If the police can't do anything then a little street justice would sort it. From previous posts I've seen you could sort that between your boyfriend and colleagues.



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05 Mar 2011, 3:59 pm

emlion wrote:
not likely.
i'm going to find a bridge to jump off or something.
i'm sure he's out there, then i won't have to worry.

Go talk to Stefan.



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05 Mar 2011, 4:00 pm

Mark198423 wrote:
If the police can't do anything then a little street justice would sort it. From previous posts I've seen you could sort that between your boyfriend and colleagues.


I'm no fan of the police but I don't think that's the answer. Like I said he can't stay out there forever. This will all catch up with him eventually.



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05 Mar 2011, 4:04 pm

emlion wrote:
not likely.
i'm going to find a bridge to jump off or something.
i'm sure he's out there, then i won't have to worry.


Don't

You said yourself in the suicide thread earlier that talking about things is better than going through with it

Talk about it, either here or with Stefan or a friend



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05 Mar 2011, 4:05 pm

emlion, you're panicking. You need to slow down and discussing things with your boyfriend and come up with a plan.

jump off a bridge literally or figuratively and he wins.


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05 Mar 2011, 4:05 pm

CoalBogey wrote:
Mark198423 wrote:
If the police can't do anything then a little street justice would sort it. From previous posts I've seen you could sort that between your boyfriend and colleagues.


I'm no fan of the police but I don't think that's the answer. Like I said he can't stay out there forever. This will all catch up with him eventually.


If it's the only way, then I don't see anythign wrong with this guy getting a smacking tbh

The only problem would be if he pressed charges and the police found out who did it

From a moral POV though, he would deserve everything he gets



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05 Mar 2011, 4:07 pm

Volodja wrote:
CoalBogey wrote:
Mark198423 wrote:
If the police can't do anything then a little street justice would sort it. From previous posts I've seen you could sort that between your boyfriend and colleagues.


I'm no fan of the police but I don't think that's the answer. Like I said he can't stay out there forever. This will all catch up with him eventually.


If it's the only way, then I don't see anythign wrong with this guy getting a smacking tbh

The only problem would be if he pressed charges and the police found out who did it

From a moral POV though, he would deserve everything he gets


Exactally, It can't be too hard for a small group to jump a guy fairly anonymously either.



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05 Mar 2011, 4:08 pm

Volodja wrote:
CoalBogey wrote:
Mark198423 wrote:
If the police can't do anything then a little street justice would sort it. From previous posts I've seen you could sort that between your boyfriend and colleagues.


I'm no fan of the police but I don't think that's the answer. Like I said he can't stay out there forever. This will all catch up with him eventually.


If it's the only way, then I don't see anythign wrong with this guy getting a smacking tbh

The only problem would be if he pressed charges and the police found out who did it

From a moral POV though, he would deserve everything he gets


I'd smack the **** into the middle of next week, if I thought it would solve the problem, but I doubt it would.



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05 Mar 2011, 4:12 pm

Jonsi wrote:
emlion wrote:
not likely.
i'm going to find a bridge to jump off or something.
i'm sure he's out there, then i won't have to worry.

Go talk to Stefan.


+1



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05 Mar 2011, 4:29 pm

There is an association in the UK that helps victims of stalking. Here is their website:http://www.nss.org.uk
Maybe they can help you.


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05 Mar 2011, 5:52 pm

alas didn't get as far as a bridge.



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05 Mar 2011, 5:57 pm

emlion wrote:
alas didn't get as far as a bridge.


Good

Did you talk it over with Stefan or someone? How are you feeling now?



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05 Mar 2011, 5:58 pm

no.

worse.
going outside is always bad.



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05 Mar 2011, 6:06 pm

Is there anythign that would make you feel better? Other than this guy f*****g off and leaving you alone obviously



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05 Mar 2011, 6:10 pm

yes.
but i can't do it.



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05 Mar 2011, 6:11 pm

Why? Are you sure it's something you can't do or something you just think you can't do because you have s**t self esteem atm or because you're depressed etc?

If it would help you , do it