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what did this original post say anyway??

as top contributor to this thread i see it as my god-given right to know

alright then

yep, just do what everyone does and ignore my sh***y existence.

i've pretty much talked to you for seven pages:/

For no reason.

sorry

I should be the one sorry that made you waste time of your life reading about my s**t.

most depressing thread ever....D:

our time differences suck.
i'm always asleep (well usually) then.

Well, if we're bumming emlion out, we should all take a knife.

MXH, your actual problem is that you think you're the only one who has ever felt this kind of pain, disappointment, depression and isolation. You think you're the only one who has had the self-esteem trouble to argue with others about what you believe is the true extent of your worthlessness. You think you're the only one who doesn't belong anywhere... misunderstood in the world you were never asked to be born into. You're simply not the only one. In fact, this is likely the second most popular negative condition in teenagers and young adults (the most popular being excessive drinking and sex).

The first thing you have to do is realize you're being so mainstream about this by arguing with people instead of working to fix your condition and change your perception. The next thing is to seek the help of a psychologist and actually be an active participant in your therapy to improve. Finally, you'd have to stop reinforcing and feeding these negative thoughts.

Writing a post about your feelings and erasing it, then telling everyone how pointless and worthless it all is: feeding negative thoughts.

Writing a post about your feelings, then discussing it with others to rationalize the irrational fears and feelings: productive action.

Now, I understand that you're probably just going to ignore me because you are a young adult and you're pretty sure that no matter what I say, you're still the only one in the world who has ever felt the way that you feel and I'm somehow minimizing or invalidating the severity and security you have in your condition. That, again, is something that's a product of the ridiculously warped perception of your depressed condition. While there's plenty of options to help you become functioning and HAPPY (yes, you too can be happy), all these options require you to first take a Big Boy Pill and commit to yourself to find what works and make it work.

Schonen tag noch!

The way you write, MXH, reminds me a lot of myself, last winter.

As much as it may seem impossible for whatever reason, things will improve if you let them.