Zeek wrote:
Yeah she comes home and the first words are often a complaint about the house before her work, although she does that too. No she is not expected to do all the cooking and cleaning. Grandad does all the cleaning and Nana will sometimes say how filthy it is. Cooking she sometimes does sometimes Grandad does then she complains the fans not on above the stove, even if no steams coming out yet or anything. I make my bed, chuck my stuff in the washing, would put my dishes in the dishwasher but I'm busy and someone else does it before I have the chance. I don't think Nana's only purpose is to serve me, I think her soul life purpose is to make everyone else miserable. (Sorry if I offend by disagreeing with everything you've said but that's how I see it).
No, that's OK, that's why I asked. It sounds like everyone is taking part in the upkeep of the household. Some people are just miserable. I've known a few and they can be hard to be around. I know someone who is very negative and complains constantly that people don't like her but she can't see that her sour attitude turns people off. It's always someone else's fault. Personally, I remember my mother complaining about my father. She said the first thing he said when he woke up in the morning was "s**t" and the last thing he said before he went to bed was "s**t". It can be hard to live with.
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