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Soledad
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17 Jul 2010, 10:11 pm

How to properly put on a condom. Please do not move this to the adult forum, because I stay far away from the adult and love and dating section for my own reasons. Anyways we had a mandatory meeting yesterday at my university for it. I was very uncomfortable and I ended up leaving. There was a wooden penis and students practicing putting a condom on it. And they had free condoms in the back.
It's like they were promoting sex, or forcing us to do it or something. The speaker said 63% of people start having sex by their senior year of high school or freshman year of college. I felt so uncomfortable, especially because I'm not one of those people. I've done it once, but never twice or more. and I don't constantly do it like the speaker was saying about most people.

I felt so out of place. I felt like I was strange in a way for not being in that 63% of people.


Is it because I'm aspie,. the reason I felt so out of place?



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17 Jul 2010, 11:00 pm

No, you felt out of place because you have morals and did not give into peer pressure. I am sure there were others that felt out of place too.


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Soledad
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17 Jul 2010, 11:10 pm

Mudboy wrote:
No, you felt out of place because you have morals and did not give into peer pressure. I am sure there were others that felt out of place too.


Yea you're right. A girl next to me kept sighing really hard and it seemed she was pretending to laugh, i think she felt out of place, she asked me if I spoke Spanish. so I guess she could probably tell I felt out of place too. I bet many devoted Christians in the room felt uncomfortable too, or people devoted to any religion for that matter



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19 Jul 2010, 12:12 am

Oh gosh. I thought you were gonna say jacket or something. I did not want to read that.

Please post this is the adult section its usually where secks talk is.



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19 Jul 2010, 12:35 am

Did this mandatory "meeting" happen to be coordinated by a representative of Trojan by any chance?



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19 Jul 2010, 1:23 am

Haha, this thread caught me off guard.

They weren't exactly promoting or forcing sex on you; the purpose of the meeting was to teach you how to engage in safe sex. I bet the speaker brought up that statistic to inform the students that sex is a relatively common activity, which is why they felt that it should be taught.

37% is a very decent hunk of the pie, and even if it was smaller, you can have as much or as little sex as you want!

Mudboy wrote:
No, you felt out of place because you have morals and did not give into peer pressure. I am sure there were others that felt out of place too.


Interesting guess, I wouldn't have nailed him for a Christian based on that post alone.

I think you gave him the "moral" sticker a little too quickly; he said that he gave in to his sex-crazed peers once.