... I hope that I will never feel that amount of pain again - it has been a horrendous amount of pain, and I never want to experience it to that degree.
I deserve to be happy, and if I eliminate the possibility in my mind of fair or unfair, surely I can then use my philosophical thinking on something that actually makes more sense than fairness and unfairness... I should eliminate the possibility of fair or unfair, unto me.
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Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle,
and the life of the candle will not be shortened.
Happiness never decreases by being shared.