Why do I attract bullies?

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I thought after highschool it was over with. I know I get them at working places but nothing as personal as facebook. I could be wrong but they weren't as bad. Now I got people "kicking my ass" or telling me to go to hell or accusing me of stalking them even if I tell them I was just joking around. What the hell is this? I'm not sure what I did to deserve it. I don't chat much and yet I see the same people doing the same crap to me. I've not even mentioned them.

How does one cope with this s**t? Are you suppose to get all aggressive and learn the strategies of warheads or take it like a "man"?

Am I the only one who's taking this crap?

Baby bullies grow to be...adult bullies. Not like anything changes. The high school ground just expands on a wider scale.

Just press the ignore button for Internet bullies. It's not like you'll miss out on much anyway...

Yeah well one of them is best friends from whom the people I know most. I use to be friends with and he use to be a member here. I stopped being his friend when he started acting like a s**t to me. I think he might be the one trolling me, he's the same guy who added me as a friend and until today and starts acting like a jerk.

What is it with these people? He's not the first. For the first time I'm talking about him but for so long I felt like I had to keep it to myself with these stupid thugs who think its cool. WTF gives them the right? What the f**k would make someone as sociopathic to want to get to know someone and then bully and badger them as if they were ants?

I don't think these people have brains or even the inclination to feel for other people.

Terrorists are not very smart peple.

I tend to get mouthy with them and
"get in touble" with them alot, but
I also block them out of my life.

One does not need to have an actual
fire-arm to be a terrorist.

Do you think that since it keeps happening that it is possible that you have something to do with it? Like, maybe you are seeking out these types of personalities? You must be or you either have the wrong idea of what bullying is, because you have the power to make friends who won't bully you. You need to understand the root of why you keep creating this situation in your life and Yes, you are creating it.

If some people are being an ass to you, f**k em'. (Well not literally ;p )

Block them, avoid them, ignore them.

Maybe there is a sensitive spot that people can see and once a bully see's it, they will try and put you down, when you don't put them down, you'll find that they wouldn't bother you like that anymore and they will eventually just give up in the end, unfortunately there are people like that in the world.

With online scums, you can just block them and delete them and that's about it really, they're never such a big deal to me anyways.

Most of the times, it's mostly either jealousy which is probably the case or to make the other feel bad because the bully themselves feel bad themselves.

Same reason we all do. You're probably very literal and don't understand people well, which is a visible weakness.