How am I wrong here??? (RANT)
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So I walk into a local bar tonight after my week's work as a tech support/customer rep is over. ALL I wanted to do in this bar is have a few beers and enjoy the songs I TRIED to play on the internet jukebox. I wasn't even trying to pick up any nauseating NT chicks or anything like that.
Well....it turns out it was one of the white trash female bartender's birthdays and the whole bar was in a ludicrous uproar because of this non-event
I don't know or care about this idiotic woman from Adam and I had NO idea the music that I tried to play on the internet jukebox would be preempted by her moronic goings-on on the stage (which were too childish and stupid to bother mentioning
....use your imaginations when it comes to the typical foolishness of the average NT in a bar 2nd
), but lo and behold..... they were.
I am not one to stay silent when I firmly believe that I or someone else is being treated unfairly. So I asked the bar owner if I could AT LEAST have a beer on the house since I was never going to hear the songs that I paid my HARD-EARNED f**king money to hear. Keep in mind it was around 2:30am at this time and this dumb bar closes at 3:00am.
Well......this obviously mentally inferior aging jarhead bully of an owner tells me...."no....you don't get any drinks on the house, everyone else lost money in the jukebox too.... so get over it"! !! !
So that's the way you treat your CUSTOMERS eh? YOUR bread and butter you waste of human sperm from "Jersey" or wherever the f**k your semi-illiterate a** is from!! !
What a worthless piece of petty capitalist s**t this IQ-less Tony Soprano wanna-be was!! !....LOL!! !!
Well...all the glorified truck-stop hooker "bartenders" agreed with this sleazeball loser (since they were all trailer trash NT sows who have ZERO ability to think logically and ethically or make any reasonable judgments in regards what is fair and what isn't 3rd
) and needless to say, I had no recourse at this point. *shrugs*
The long and short of this whole petty and tawdry rigarmarole is SO absurd, irrational and unfair that I feel like i'm insulting my own intelligence and dignity by EVEN posting about it within an online community of TRULY decent and logical folks who would likely hold two-legged NT locusts like this in the highest contempt. That being said, this entire post qualifies as a "necessary", yet shameful, revelation of the preposterous situation I had to contend with earlier tonight.
At any rate....for all intents and purposes, I was told to leave if I "didn't like it" and so I did. I closed my tab and didn't leave one cent as a tip for those noisome-refuse-with-a-heartbeat bartenders who cravenly took the side of their big-mouth bully boss rather than.... *gasp*! !!....stand up for what is RIGHT!! ! Why should I pump $10.00 of MY hard-earned money into an internet jukebox when I had NO f**king idea the jukebox would be shut off before I even heard one of the songs I played just so some ant-on-the-hill bimbo bartender trash could babble incoherently in the microphone about her birthday while all her gas-chamber worthy intoxicated friends carry like monkeys gamboling about on an island of idiocy???
Seriously.....WTF is WRONG with people?!?!?!?!?!?!
What sort of planet am I living on here???
Is this the Castor of idiocy and the Pollux of Sociopathy or is it Earth???
Have they NO sense of what is reasonably fair and what is not anymore?!?!?!?!?!?!
If any of you ever wonders why I have nothing but the blackest hatred for the vast majority of NT pig f**ker scum..... well.....wonder no more and crap like this isn't even the TIP of the F**king iceberg!! !
Anyway....after this utterly revolting little incident....I just got in my car, played the following song over and over and fantasized about how inexpressibly splendid it would be to live out every f**king word of it
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwY3Ftfdy6M[/youtube]
Thank the four crown princes of hell for misanthropic heavy metal music!! !
Without it I would've made the most viscious and sadistic serial killers in history seem like Mary f**kin' Poppins in comparison!! !
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Last edited by Horus on 15 Jan 2011, 4:53 am, edited 1 time in total.
Dude, tone down the language.
You made a few mistakes but this isn't a matter of right and wrong. They have their rules and they must be respected.
Just because you misunderstood things you don't have to insult the people who work there.
Just try to settle down. Soon you'll forget about this.
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You can rant, I'd be pissed off too. They should have refunded your money. I would have left and not paid a tip either. You said in the title that this was a rant, so no one needs to say "calm down" in my opinion. I mean you're not on the verge of going postal or anything, you're just ranting.
Honestly I don't see why anyone would spend $10 on an internet jukebox. It seems to be a lot of money to hear just a few songs.
When one is in a small, highly social setting such as a bar, one is expected to go with the flow of social dynamics. There is no promise that you will get to peacefully listen to what you paid for on the juke box, sing karaoke even though it's karaoke night, watch what game you want to watch, play darts or pool even if there's a dart board or pool table, or get free peanuts.
This was obviously a tight knit group of individuals. Their priority was celebrating a birthday of a friend so that is what took precedent that night.
Your logic fails to take into account the importance of certain social concepts (which is actually very logical from an evolutionary stance).
The bartender possibly could have handled the situation differently and refunded your money or maybe give you a free beer, but whether he felt inclined to likely hinged on how you approached the issue.
In the future, if you would like to listen to particular songs in a particular place at a particular time, I suggest you use a personal audio device such as an iPod.
You made a few mistakes but this isn't a matter of right and wrong. They have their rules and they must be respected.
Just because you misunderstood things you don't have to insult the people who work there.
Just try to settle down. Soon you'll forget about this.
What RULES pensieve???
Are you trying to tell me there's some "rule" that says I have to forego money that I WORKED for just because some cud-chewing ruminant masquerading as a human being decides to moo, bleat and bellow a bunch inane drunken rhetoric into a microphone???
Surely you jest!! !
I didn't misunderstand a damn thing here pensieve.....I was blatantly and shamelessly ripped-off of my ten bucks and there really is NO other way you can slice this!! !
NO ONE told me this a**hat was going to do this....all was quiet on the western front so to speak and I had NO indication that the music I tried to play was going to be cast aside like an old shoe just so this fat goods of a bartender could get her little birthday jollies
in at 2:30 in the blessed AM!! !
With all due respect pensieve......I have NO use for this "peace at any price" mentality you seem to be recommending here.
I don't know about you or anyone else on WP.....but I for one became tired of being mocked, abused and exploited by every NT swine in the world after high school!! !
I REFUSE to take their crap anymore without a brutal nihilistic hate-war being launched on my part
Why should I? Give me ONE good reason. Why should I show them any mercy? I know damn well by now i'll never receive any
Herein lies one of the fundamental problems with the world IMO. You have a few powerless schmucks like me who are VERY angry. I would kindly suggest the rest of you aren't nearly angry ENOUGH.
You know as well as I do that all my anger is impotent without billions of equally angry fellows to back me up.
In any case......I won't be apologizing for one word of what I wrote in my previous thread or this one. I would refuse to do so even if the moderators believed these posts were cause to ban me.
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Take it or leave it my friend....this is, so to speak, just how I "roll".
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Morning comes the sunrise and i'm driven to my bed, I see that it is empty and there's devils in my head. I embrace, the many-colored beast...I grow weary of the torment....can there be no peace? I find myself just wishing, that my life would simply cease
When one is in a small, highly social setting such as a bar, one is expected to go with the flow of social dynamics. There is no promise that you will get to peacefully listen to what you paid for on the juke box, sing karaoke even though it's karaoke night, watch what game you want to watch, play darts or pool even if there's a dart board or pool table, or get free peanuts.
This was obviously a tight knit group of individuals. Their priority was celebrating a birthday of a friend so that is what took precedent that night.
Your logic fails to take into account the importance of certain social concepts (which is actually very logical from an evolutionary stance).
The bartender possibly could have handled the situation differently and refunded your money or maybe give you a free beer, but whether he felt inclined to likely hinged on how you approached the issue.
In the future, if you would like to listen to particular songs in a particular place at a particular time, I suggest you use a personal audio device such as an iPod.
Good.....I sincerely hope this "tight knit group of individuals" runs into a Jared Loughner or Chu Seung Hui one of these days.
Maybe then i'll have the delicious opportunity to piss on their decapitated heads while the people who brought them into this world look on in horror!! !
NT scum no longer get any quarter from me!! !! !! !! !
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Morning comes the sunrise and i'm driven to my bed, I see that it is empty and there's devils in my head. I embrace, the many-colored beast...I grow weary of the torment....can there be no peace? I find myself just wishing, that my life would simply cease
Here's what I wish upon almost all of humanity:

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Morning comes the sunrise and i'm driven to my bed, I see that it is empty and there's devils in my head. I embrace, the many-colored beast...I grow weary of the torment....can there be no peace? I find myself just wishing, that my life would simply cease
This pretty much sums it all up:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DtM0A15HttM[/youtube]
"THEY'RE GONNA PUT ME IN JAIL?
MAN, I'M ALREADY IN JAIL
DON'T THEY KNOW THAT MY LIFE
IS JUST ONE BIG CELL
I'LL BITE THE HAND THAT FEEDS ME
AND I COULD GIVE A DAMN IF THAT HAND NEEDS ME
WHY CAN'T YOU LIVE ME ALONE?
A LIE MAY FOOL SOMEONE ELSE
BUT IT TELLS YOU THE TRUTH
YOU'RE WEAK, JUST ANOTHER CLONE
I JUST WANT MY LIFE
TO DO WHATEVER I LIKE
YEAH, IT'S A SELFISH NEED
TO HAVE NO RESPONSIBILITY
SO I'LL SAY WHAT I'M GONNA SAY
'CAUSE I'M GOING TO HELL ANYWAY
I'D RATHER BE ALONE
IN MY WORLD
I'M NOT AFRAID
I AM NOT AFRAID
NOTHING TOUCHES ME I'M A WALKING RAZOR BLADE
FACE THE FACE OF FEAR
FACE THE FACE OF DEATH
LAUGH WHEN OTHERS TEAR
HATE WHEN OTHERS LAUGH
IN MY WORLD IT'S SO COLD
MY DEFENSE IS LIKE STONE
NO ONE GETS INSIDE, 'CAUSE
IN MY WORLD I'M HOME
IN MY WORLD I LOATHE
AND YOU'LL ALWAYS PAY A TOLL
NO ONE GETS INSIDE, 'CAUSE
IN MY WORLD I'M HOME
AN ADULT AT THIRTEEN
MY CHILDHOOD WAS A DREAM
A FULL CLOUT NIGHTMARE, A SIGHT UNSEEN
MY GREATEST FEAR AS A KID
ONE WHICH I ALWAYS KEPT HID
WAS TO COME HOME FROM SCHOOL
AND FIND MY MOTHER DEAD
I JUST WANT MY LIFE
TO DO WHATEVER I LIKE
YEAH IT'S A SELFISH NEED
TO HAVE NO RESPONSIBILITY
SO I'LL SAY WHAT I'M GONNA SAY
'CAUSE I'M GOING TO HELL ANYWAY
I'D RATHER BE ALONE
IN MY WORLD
I'M NOT AFRAID
I AM NOT AFRAID
NOTHING TOUCHES ME I'M A WALKING RAZOR BLADE
FACE THE FACE OF FEAR
FACE THE FACE OF DEATH
LAUGH WHEN OTHERS TEAR
HATE WHEN OTHERS LAUGH
IN MY WORLD IT'S SO COLD
MY DEFENSE IS LIKE STONE
NO ONE GETS INSIDE, 'CAUSE
IN MY WORLD I'M HOME
IN MY WORLD I LOATHE
AND YOU'LL ALWAYS PAY A TOLL
NO ONE GETS INSIDE, 'CAUSE
IN MY WORLD I'M HOME
HOME!! !
I'M NOT AFRAID
I AM NOT AFRAID
NOTHING TOUCHES ME I'M A WALKING RAZOR BLADE
FACE THE FACE OF FEAR
FACE THE FACE OF DEATH
LAUGH WHEN OTHERS TEAR
HATE WHEN OTHERS LAUGH
I AM NOT AFRAID
I AM NOT AFRAID
I AM NOT AFRAID"
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Morning comes the sunrise and i'm driven to my bed, I see that it is empty and there's devils in my head. I embrace, the many-colored beast...I grow weary of the torment....can there be no peace? I find myself just wishing, that my life would simply cease
I speculate that perhaps instead of actually being angry that you were not able to listen to the songs you paid for, you may be angry because you felt alienated and excluded by default.
I speculate, that perhaps you actually want to...or at one time, wanted to be part of such a group. To have such friends, and either did not know how to obtain this type of belonging, or were rejected, and walking into this situation simply brought old sentiments to the surface.
I was not much different when I was much younger. I used to feel resentful that I didn't have a group of friends, and I thought that I would be rejected from future groups by default because I was so different.
However I came to realize a few things which have significantly changed my perspective on life.
Among a few which might apply to such situations...
1. I really AM the odd one out. I am an American in Japan, so to speak, and it is I who needs to make the effort. I need to be a diplomat of sorts.
2. NT's can't be blamed for their social dynamics any more than people with AS can be blamed for theirs. The way NT's socialize is a complex system which is the end result of hundreds of thousands of years of evolution. I can go into this more if you like.
3. NT's actually have an affinity for forming friendly social connections (there are multiple evolutionary advantages to doing so), and you actually have more potential friends than enemies, but you have to make the effort to be diplomatic much as an American in Japan must humble themselves and do their best to respect Japanese culture and speak Japanese.
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Yes. A few beers and a few songs would have cost much less and would not have been interrupted at home.
I definitely feel your angst over not being allowed to just peacefully stand with your nose pressed to the glass. This world just does not understand.
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I'd be annoyed too. Sometimes the barstaff don't have access to the juke, and it's operated by a company, not the bar.
A bar full of known patrons socializing is going to take precedence over your desire to hear music.
Don't take it personally.
Perhaps if you'd known that they were going to start making noise and switch off the juke, then you wouldn't have put so much money in it.
Your response is a littttle bit over the top, methinks. Maybe there's a large residue of built up resentment that just took this opportunity to spill.
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Whoa, Horus. Careful. You don't want certain people reading your rants about how you'd like to kill all NT's (whatever they are) then going "OMG the Aspies are out to slaughter us all, we must lock them all up in secure institutions!".
On the plus side, it makes good fodder for Trey Parker and Matt Stone when they finally decide to take notice of us...
The bar staff may have been more inclined to offer you a free drink if you hadn't got in their face and angry about it. You may not have said any of the obscene phrases you posted here about them to their faces, but they could probably pick up on the attitude a mile off.
I'm not familiar with jukeboxes, where I come from, we just listen to whatever the DJ feels like playing, but $10 sounds an awful lot for a song, or were you planning on doing exactly the same as the birthday party was and booking out the jukebox for an hour?
