I might have I made a bad thing worse...

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I know that there is a section on this site where I'm sure I offfended someone.
It was wrong and it could have made matters worse.
to make this clear i feel That I was wrong. but so were they.

I overreacted and so did they... and i think it just hurts me far too much.
this happend in the politics section and i don't seem to be welcome there.

but it was a hard subject... one I'd never thought I would see here.
I never wanted to get invovled but i could not help myself once I read it.

my first mistake was giong to that section... the second was reading that topic... the third was commenting on it.
then there were some harsh words on my part.

guess i I just want to apoligize for all the bad things I put there.
I saw alot of things there that offended me. could be why I was rude too.

So i'm a bad person for what I did? is it ok to forgive myself and the others?

I fear I may continue to fall victum to what seems so wrong.

I tried to tell them we could not agree on that subject and that it would get worse if any of us continued to make comments there.
but I guess I only made the issue worse... now they said i might not belong here becuase of my emotions.
I'm I really a bad person or did it just bring out the worst in me... I feel awful about it all.
is it wrong for me to get emotionall... I know i have issues.... but every one can get that way in a situation that bothers them.
I'm a just Wrong here? is there hope for me here after all this?

I must sound terrible... i'm so sorry about what went on there.
if you look at the politics section and find the topic where all the bad stuff a happend... please don't get offended by what i said there.
it just got out of hand. I do not want to take sides at this point. I just want to feel accepted again.

I don't know what you are talking about as you've not told us which post you are referring to.

When you make cryptic posts like this you might as well be whispering secrets to yourself.

We can't offer much in the way of comments, advice or support when we do not understand the nature of the post.

Sounds to me like whoever "they" are, they are hypocrites.

I'm sorry. I was uncertain to say ecxatly which one.

Wouln't be hard to find becuase it's the only one i ever commented on in the politics section.

it was the "no kids allowed movement" posted on this site. I could not agree with the what was posted there.
I felt like they had some kind of unreasonable hatred for young people.
At least one person seemed to hate the very old people.
sterotyping people by age group. is exactly what I saw.
and it is hurtful...I know some very old grandparents and young children.

I'm not asking you to agree With me.... it's just something that really effects me.
all I want is to leave it behind. but is it possible to be done with it?
I don't want to deal with the arguments anymore.

I feel like it turned others against me. I'm i still overreacting?
Is it pointless to say I've realized that maybe I'm just bad at expressing my opinion?

The politics forum tends to be debate oriented. In debates you voice an opinion and what ensues is a discussion, hopefully civil and logical, in which people attempt to share their opposing points of view. They may either stand by their initial comments, change their stance somewhat, or change their stance completely. You do not need to apologize for having a perspective that is at odds with that of others.

The ppr forum is a place where quite a few of the more emotionally sensitive among us, have learnt to avoid, as it can get quite heated in there, and you have to be able, really, to debate without bringing emotions and personal accusations into the equation. Debate tends to be done in a rational way, and having taken a look, you seemed to get very carried away by strong feelings, which will tend to not go down too well in that section. I would stick to other sections, if I were you.

Don't worry. The people who disagreed with you will get over it.

It is normal to behave like that if you feel someone is offending you. Thats why there is a saying that people in parties should not talk about religion or politics. Those subjects are always sensitive. I try to stay away from those topics because everyone has their own believes and opinions, and that is Ok because everybody has the right to it, but people feels attacked by people whose believes and oponions are different. I would revommend you to stay away from those subjects. You will live a happier life.

I do not think you are a bad person, just a regular person with a live temper. You know you did wrong and feel bad about it, so I think you can forgive yourself. You do not need to forgive the others because they did wrong but you also offended them, so I think they deserve more your excuses than your forgiveness.