It really depends on the issue you're referring to. But if you're not sure, I'd describe the problem to someone whose judgement you can trust (this person may/not be difficult to locate) and ask them if you need help.
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Balance is needed within the universe, can be demonstrated in most/all concepts/things. Black/White, Good/Evil, etc.
All dependent upon your own perspective in your own form of existence, so trust your own gut and live the way YOU want/need to.