Does this happen to anyone els?

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MysteryLife
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19 Nov 2011, 9:05 pm

So you known a person who you think is your friend or potential friend for a while, then another person comes along so now there's 3 in this group. But the guy you've been talking to for a while just starts to ignore you in conversations involving all 3 of you.

What im trying to say is.. I moved into this apartment while there was only one other guy living there, his name is Pat. We talk and seem to get along and stuff but then a new roomate moves in, Jeremy, they don't know eachother but they seem really close now. When all 3 of us are talking, they both just look at eachother when they talk and not a glance at me. Like I ain't even there. I do talk too but they just say "yeah, cool, okay, sure" and don't try to expand what im trying to say, if that makes sense..
This has always happened in my life. I meet a person who I think is a friend because I think we hit it off but as soon as someone new comes around, im left in the dust. Makes me feel like giving up on everything



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19 Nov 2011, 9:16 pm

Yes it happened to me twice. Its so anoying! I don`t know how but some people think friends are property and don`t need looking after but they do. Just remember, you don`t have friends, all you can do is be a friend.


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19 Nov 2011, 9:18 pm

Yeah, that is always what happens.



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19 Nov 2011, 9:33 pm

happens to me all the time I am a friend for over a year and tossed aside because this other person may be a more beneficial a friend to the person I have known for over a year.


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19 Nov 2011, 9:48 pm

:oops:


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19 Nov 2011, 10:36 pm

yep.


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20 Nov 2011, 1:14 pm

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20 Nov 2011, 11:06 pm

Thanks everyone <3