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11 Dec 2011, 3:02 pm

Does anyone here feel lonely in the evenings? About 8pm onwards...and it carries on until midnight (when I go to bed). I always tell myself that it doesn't mean anything, cos I'm happy for most of the day.



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11 Dec 2011, 3:25 pm

I used to experience it. I think it's because the world starts shutting down for the night. Do you feel better with the TV on?

Seriously, silence is overrated. Turn something on. ((( Hugs )))



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11 Dec 2011, 3:29 pm

PersephoneX wrote:
I used to experience it. I think it's because the world starts shutting down for the night. Do you feel better with the TV on?

Seriously, silence is overrated. Turn something on. ((( Hugs )))


Thanks for the hugs. I'm playing music. I have it on almost all the time. Happy music, too. :) I've had this timed loneliness thing since my teenage years.



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11 Dec 2011, 3:30 pm

Lonely? No ... more like relieved!



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11 Dec 2011, 3:46 pm

Fnord wrote:
Lonely? No ... more like relieved!


As in...work is finished for the day?



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11 Dec 2011, 4:43 pm

Not from a specific time, as I get home at different times of the day and it usually starts about then.



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12 Dec 2011, 7:18 pm

smudge wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Lonely? No ... more like relieved!
As in...work is finished for the day?

As in: There is no one going to bother me for another 12 hours!



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12 Dec 2011, 8:45 pm

I feel the same relief Fnord does but also think it'd be great to have someone special to cuddle with in silence.


... pets dont count. Not that kind of cuddling..the other kind of cuddling.