i want to move out sooooo bad and really soon.

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Here’s the story:
I am 24 years old. And I live with my parents, which to me is really embarrassing. They are always on my case about not helping out around the house and they’ve called me lazy a few times, which hurts. It’s not that I’m lazy, I just don’t care. I have an “I don’t care” attitude. If something doesn’t concern me then I don’t worry about it till I have to.

I do have a plan on getting a support worker to help me with daily life, but it probably won’t happen till the spring because of funding. And it’s making me mad because I want to move out right now. I want to get apartment and live my life the way I want to live it and not have my parents constantly on my back about not doing the dishes. I know they have to be done and I can see that they have to be, but doing them aren’t my biggest worry. I’ll do them when I do them. It’s one of those situations where once I do move out then who do they think are going to do everything they are always on my case about. Eventually they are going to do the dishes when I am not here.

Once I move out then that’s it. I am not coming back. Once I’m out I am out. And I want to move far from my parents. I can’t stand them.

I don't know a lot about your parents but being in that same position only a couple of years ago I understand some of your feelings.

I don't like my mom, I love her--I think she needs help but I don't like her.

Even then, not caring.. is not really good. There's going to possibly be a lot of things that you have to do in life and don't care to do.

No matter how much you dislike your parents.. you can still care.

I mean are your parents abusive? Calling you lazy is kinda mean.. but they have to be what? Mid 40's to early 50's? Is it fair for them to do all the housework as they foot the bill?