for christ sacks shut the f**k up and didn't ruin your life

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would giving a neurotypical a sh***y present shut them up.. they are so negative of aspies... especially generation x parents... your thoughts...
some of generation y are acting like this

most of my family acts like i ruin their lives... shut up... look at yourself and your attitude

o the aspie ruin my life... he moved a few things and the balance of order is out of wack... especially when it's an area of the basement that is so neat that a mouse could eat off it...

but wait there is still your crap in this house

current residence my dad's house...

i think it's his ocd... i don't touch his stuff but he confuses my stuff of ruining his life...
my mother has her own problems... you can't stay on a computer... clean everything up so it's perfect

f**k off

Sounds like you're just as negative with NTs as you claim they are with Aspies.

I think you've had a bad a experience with neurotypicals

If dad is OCD then he isn't exactly NT.

Anyway, sounds like it's time to spread your 21 year-old wings and leave the nest. When you are paying the bills for your own place and can just put the old man straight through to voicemail, you will not have to worry about his excessively orderly basement anymore.

If you are dependent on him, though. That's another story.

Are you pissed at him or at your dependence on him? Is it time to plan self-supporting independence?

due to the regulations in this country an apartment building is the only place.... i would like to move away from neurotypicals at the moment right now. but don't got the cash to do so.

How can you get the cash? Do you have a job?

As long as you're dependent on others, you'll have to abide by their rules.

[Moved from General Autism Discussion to The Haven]

I'm sure DizzleJWizzle would be very interested in a job, but given today's economy that can be easier said than done.

the problem is the discrimination against me... i try to do my best at any job and finish

capitalism version of a job
work taxes work taxes work taxes
rich pay no taxes
my version work finish job move on to next task... like a computer


this world isn't designed for me... and it's getting worse
btw i'm limited on odsp with a monthly amount of 100 dollars
a ceo gets 135 million dollar pay check
just the unfairness of this world.

The world is massively unfair.

This is a reality we have to deal with. The questions is how can you improve your circumstances.

ISTM that you can either:

1. Disengage from your parents -- but this may be beyond your means.

2. Change their behavior. Good luck with that! Historical evidence suggest its notgonnahappen.

3. change your behavior to mitigate he circumstances that currently trouble you.

with your $100/ month, could you rent a desk in a shared office or artists space?

Then you could annoy those people instead of your dad and they probably won't realy care if you keep up with the rent!

Or maybe you could use a little of that money for transport to a big public library where you can use some study space?

There are probably other ways you can go, but these are concrete solutions that come mind