Another awful thing happened.

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The other day I got asked out by someone I found very attractive. We went out and it was fun. They even 'made a pass at me' and I was very flattered.

I felt really good for a day which was a change as I have been feeling suicidally depressed for quite a while.

But then today I found out that the person isn't even single as I thought. They are living with someone!

I am horrified that the person misled me in such a manner. I am also horrified that they were doing that behind the other person's back.

Thirdly I am horrified that I might attract bad karma for going out with someone who was already with someone else, even though I didn't know about it.

He should have told you he was already with someone else. You didn't know because he didn't tell you. It's his fault, and he's the cheater.
I'm sorry that happened to you.

Really sorry that happened to you. But maybe it's good you found out now, rather than later. He's not very ethical, is he?

I knew some people who cheated or seriously considered cheating in college. They weren't necessarily slu*ty or bad people, they were in relationships that weren't doing it for them and wanted out, but didn't want out alone.

Maybe they don't like who they're living with. Maybe that's why they are starting to hang out
See if you can talk with them.

Be cautious. At the minimum they should explain frankly what is going on.

Thank you for your replies. I haven't had anything to do with the person since then. I was absolutely horrified at such behaviour.

There was definately nothing wrong with your intent or actions considering what information you had at the time.