Help me not to hurt him. For real, HELP!

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I'm serious. I have nobody to talk to at this second and on top of finding out this morning that my husband got laid off, I found out I have herpes. This morning. It's obviously from Ole Boy and I've talked to him and he's very blase about it. I seriously want to hurt him. Badly. At the moment I think I can limit it to curses so he never gets it up again and maybe that aneurysm in his head pops but I so just want to beat the living s**t out of him. Somebody please chill me out.

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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Wowshit.

..and here I thought I had it bad today.

Calm down.
The miserable SoB clearly isn't worth the trouble it would take & cause to beat him senseless, however satisfying doing so might be.
I promise.

Besides, think of all the fun you can have punishing him for it in dozens of different ways for the rest of his life.
You wouldn't get to have that if you got arrested for beating him within an inch of his life, and you'd lose the moral high ground even if you didn't end up in jail.

Don't get mad... think of ways to get even.

Hope that helps.

you're actually right. Getting even is the best. I need a young goat now.

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA.

The link to the forum is http://www.rightplanet.proboards.com

And BTW, I don't think I've ever had the moral high ground in my life. We are a bunch of outlaws over here. But nice ones.

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA.

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I'd agree with the getting even thing....though I am a wee bit confused is 'Ole Boy' your husband?

No, he's the guy I've been seeing on the side for four years or so. My husband knows about it. It's chill.

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA.

The link to the forum is http://www.rightplanet.proboards.com

If it were me, I'd probably watch something absolutely not stressful to calm down. Don't know if it will help you, but it's worth trying.

Here's a playlist of cute puppies:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRu8tpmF ... A80F3EAC07

Link to School Rumble (anime, very little drama mostly comedy):
http://www.hulu.com/school-rumble

Corner Gas (I find Canadian humor to be very laidback and not threatening)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1nMXV4NG ... 3FBB597D89

violence is never a good answer.

violence is never a good answer

Smoke some bud and take it easy.

I'll save my sympathy for the young goat.You are most likely going to whack it as a sacrifice to get even.All that does is bring you more bad luck.Maybe you ought to lay off killing turtles and goats.Maybe something nice would come your way then.
Karma is a b***h.

Sorry,but when you mentioned killing a turtle that was pretty upsetting,I move them out of the road to save them.I don't want you to have a bad life,you are smart and help lots of people here. You talked about doing cooking videos that would show people how to make good homemade meals and that was such a nice thing to think of.Its like Invasion of the Body Snatchers and that OOM is gone.I don't want you do get hurt by angering the wrong people either in some of your escapades.Im more aggravated than mad,you have lots to offer and I think you would be a brilliant writer.When you see someone with potential heading the wrong way,sometimes you just want to shake them and yell stop,you are hurting yourself.
Guess I'm no good at tough love.