if things dont improve in the future i may consider suicide

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i cant take the drugs the abuse being locked up the loneliness. if that is the only thing i have to look forward to, life is not worth it. i dont want do it, but if things degenerated to point where my quality of life was so bad i could no say i would not start seriously think about.

my family only care if the drugs go down my throat and will really nasty if they think i dont take it. there is no love and i dont have any one to turn to

i gonna try to fight like heck to survive, but if cant i dont know,

Don't.

You cannot be locked up all that often as you seem to be allowed on the net to post on here.
You have posted a number of threads about the same thing and been given advice,but I don't see quite what anyone here can do....were you hoping someone would call the police for you or come round and face off your parents? You have access to the net, I am sure there are organisations other than the police who might be able to act on your behalf. I suggest you find out what help is available and tell them what you have told us on here.

and keep telling them and ram it down their throats, because I am sorry hon, the system is not set up as it was intended. Emergency services require both loud panic and vocal persistance to address things in their proper manner-attributes we may lack. They don't just do what they say they'll do or see what they ought to see. you HAVE TO keep repeating yourself. hugs.

Seabright

been there. down that. burned the t-shirt.

how old are you?

not that my life is perfect... but it improved significant;y after moving away from my parents.

i hope that you see better days.

i'm all across the emotional flip flop board myself these days.

take care

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i feel like 13, the drugs serously screwed with my development and maturity, never got to grow up

I don't give a s**t if you do or not. Seriously.

If he IS serious, then I would advise him not to commit suicide. But I see this all the time on certain websites eg. Myspace... most of them claim they'll commit suicide yet don't, mainly because people didn't comment him/her in a while. I may seem like a utter heartless twat, but people using suicide as a form of attention seeking is worse.

The man is drugged and incarcerated - not even free to use his own mind. Death is infinitely preferable. Just do it right - try to get yourself into a state of pureness. DON'T dare go out of depression. Considering is no big deal - doing is the hard step.

I'd say seek help.

As a side note: The help you need is not available here.

That should solve that issue. Empty emotional support may be what he wants, but it's not what he needs, so it's not what we should give him. Now what we need to focus on is letting this guy know where he needs to look.

Why the haven?

In the past few months a lot of members have complained about having their genuine problems made fun of for being pity-mongering. "You only posted this to get attention"... "Don't whine, just go out and do it"... etc.

So this forum is a place where people can speak up about what's really going on in their lives without fear of being attacked. All we ask is that you approach anything that's said in this forum with an open mind and good intentions.

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