To my stalker

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Please stop.
I'm begging you.

You wanted me to beg, now I am.
You wanted me to be afraid of you, I have been for years.

After all this time why are you still stalking me?
I know you watch me, so you know there has been no-one else and there never will be - I would never put another person in your sights. I know what you are capable of.
I have pushed everyone away from me to keep them safe.

You haven't come for me yet, it's because you are afraid of going back to prison isn't it? You are so good at hiding and know how to avoid the police, I stopped reporting you years ago.
You have made my life hell, that's what you wanted so now you can stop.
Please stop.
Let me go. I do not love you. I will never be with you. It's been 8 years.

You started this, you can finish it.
Walk away with the satisfaction of knowing you achieved your goals.

Walk away or come for me as you promised - end this.

I'm reasonably sure that internet people such as myself have no authority in these matters. It seems like isolating yourself could make things more difficult though, just my opinion but keeping a good friend or 2 around could make any conflicts that come up a lot quieter.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

Interesting, a real stalker story. Some people just think someone who calls them 1 more time than they'd like is stalking.

Anyways, after that long.. even 1/2 that long, there's just no reasoning to be done anymore. It's up to the authorities, even though you stopped reporting him you need a pretty good restraining order.. or to move.

Isolating yourself and pushing people away is very likely a bad idea, though.

Some people consider calling them one more time than they’d like to be stalking, and the number of times they’d like is zero.

I don’t know whether pushing others away to protect them is a good idea, but it takes guts.

@ 886 & cberg, I appreciate your input that isolation is perhaps the wrong way to go, but I don't want anyone else hurt due to proximity..
I can, and will defend myself..

@886 I do have a restraining order in place, though the police are powerless until he physically hurts me. The laws here with domestic violence are slowly changing, for the better, but these things take time.
I haved moved - I was advised by a police officer years ago to "go as far as you can, as fast as you can" and I did. But he found me. I refuse to relocate & restructure my life again & again because of him.
No offence taken 886 - I appreciate your input, and no - you are not jumping to conclusions ..

@ Spiderpig, I agree. Many people use the word "Stalker" lightly.
Thanks for thinking I have guts.... Some days I feel like I do..

You didn't place yourself in the dangerous side of this situation so I don't forsee you doing so with anybody else. If I'm right, it's not much of a stretch to say you probably have some friends who would drop whatever and keep an eye on all this nonsense for you, if they knew...

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos