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13 Apr 2007, 3:06 am

I've been thinking about the question of fitting in here a lot lately. It wasn't until I spent a few days away from WP that I realised that I simply don't fit in anywhere here. I feel like a square peg in a round hole, and it hurts. I'm taking a break from here for a while, as there's no point my being here while I feel like this. Perhaps I'm just a bit depressed at the moment, but it feels like the right thing to do.
This isn't a 'talk me out of it' post, I've already decided, but I didn't want to just leave without saying anything. I'll probably be back in a couple of months when I've had a break. Maybe I'll feel a bit less weird.
I've met a lot of nice, supportive people here, and to everyone I've talked to, or had a laugh with, either in the forum or by PM, thanks, I have enjoyed your company and your friendship. At the moment, I think I just need to 'get over myself', lol. So I need a bit of time to myself.



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13 Apr 2007, 3:21 am

Have a nice break! I like reading your witty posts...hope to see them again...:)



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13 Apr 2007, 3:53 am

Good luck over the next couple of months!

Let me know how the narrowboating goes....


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13 Apr 2007, 7:29 am

I'm taking a break from WP, too.



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13 Apr 2007, 8:07 am

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...take care Starr :) good luck... relax and look after yourself
we'll be thinking about you


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13 Apr 2007, 8:15 am

Have I nice break, Starr. I'll miss you. :D


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13 Apr 2007, 8:26 am

Have a nice break :D, I hope you feel better :( and also hope you remember to comeback in a few months


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13 Apr 2007, 8:40 am

hope we'll see you back soon Starr. The nut-basket on the "Last Person to Post Wins" thread just won't be the same without you.

I know you said you weren't posting to be talked out of leaving, but hey, what the heck, I'll try anyway (I never did know when to stop :roll: :lol: ).

All I want to say is that I think you do fit in well on WP. When I first started posting here, I dropped into a few threads & made a bit of an ass of myself. Then I nearly gave in because no-one was responding to my introductory post until you & witchy_jocelyn did. That actually meant a lot to a sad old case like me.

I value seeing your posts around the place so you'll be missed. Us old fogies have got to stick together or else these youngsters will run rings around us :lol:

Anyway, you have to do what you feel's best, so good luck with whatever you decide.


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13 Apr 2007, 8:51 pm

I hope you become relaxed and happy on your break. I'll be looking out for when you return.


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13 Apr 2007, 9:42 pm

Perhaps if they gave us older aspies our own forum where we can talk about things besides video games and trying to get dates. Then we would all have a place where we could all feel like we fit in.



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13 Apr 2007, 9:49 pm

bizarre wrote:
Perhaps if they gave us older aspies our own forum where we can talk about things besides video games and trying to get dates. Then we would all have a place where we could all feel like we fit in.
I'm not an older aspie and think thats a good idea :? its better than ust thsat one thread anyway. Everybody should have a forum they feel they can fit into and the adult forum seems to be, err, umm, icky...


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14 Apr 2007, 6:54 pm

I agree...a forum for older aspies would be great...I like hanging out with people older than I am...and I'd say they'd definitely like to hang out with each other...



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15 Apr 2007, 2:59 pm

I hope you have a nice break, and I look forward to reading more of your posts if you decide to come back, in the future. :)



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15 Apr 2007, 3:00 pm

I also think that a forum for older Aspies would be a good idea. I'm beyond video games and dating.



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15 Apr 2007, 3:14 pm

By all means if you can take a break do it. I'm in front of my computer at least every waking moment but say 2 hours a day. So its too much of a temptation to avoid WP.

I use to at least have my TV on (I have a TV card on my computer) but I do not even watch TV anymore. I've been programming more than ever but that is usually interrupted by WP :) So to all us that are trapped here feel free to break free. Though
also feel free to stop in now and again.



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16 Apr 2007, 6:24 pm

I would like to take a break from this forum too..I am curently trying to convince myself that I am not an Aspie...and if it werent specificly stated that ADDers were welcome too, then I would not belong here at all...but it's nice to belong somewhere..maybe I can find a nice active ADD site..maybe I can meet other ADDers who have incorrectly thought that they might be Aspies...alot of times though on those sites, all they seem to talk about is medication problems and whatnot...