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Someone at work keeps messing with my car and I don't know what they are going to do next. Then a few of my coworkers stare at me while I'm in the break room and a couple invade my personal space and bump into me. I don't think I did anything to anyone. I don't understand and I'm so tired of people and the games.

Then it feels like people keep pushing me away and I don't know why. If I didn't know them for very long it wouldn't bother me as much, but they act friendly and attentive towards me for a while and then it seems like for no reason they start to become cold and distant. I'm use to a lot of people rejecting me, but it's so confusing when it seems like they have gone through the same things. It's starting to feel like my roommate that I've lived with for almost 4 years is starting to become more distant towards me too. I think there's something about me that's really off putting to people and it just pushes them away. I don't think it would bother me as much if it just happened a few times, but it happens a lot and it feels like it will just keep happeneing. It's all just stressing me out and I don't know how much I can take.

I've been crying on and off all day. It feels like when I meet people they act close to me for a while and then it seems like I just push them away and it feels like it's just going to keep happening. I feel like I just make people too uncomfortable or something.

Maybe you should ask your roommate if something is going on to cause you to feel this way. I can't tell from your posts what might be going on.

Maybe I could, but a lot of other people do this too. It's really confusing. It feels like no one really wants me around or cares and they just pity me. It feels like I'm not good enough for anyone. I'm sorry for going on and being so negative, but I felt like I had to get it off my chest.

It's really hard to imagine what exactly you're doing that's making you a target like this. All I can do is come up with wild speculations. And without knowing the cause finding solutions is rather tricky.

I hope better times and things come your way.

Thank you.

I do, too!

Thanks.

*sends internet hugs*

That is a really weird situation, people actually messing with your personal property at work?! I could see something like that in a highschool setting, but in a professional workplace? I really hope that subsides soon, that's really not something you, or anyone for that matter, should have to be dealing with.

I'll say it again, I really don't get why people push you away. You seem like a really sweet person from what I've seen. I hope things get better for you

Someone was readjusting and moving one of my rear view mirrors. It could just be vandals, but it would be a coincidence because it happened twice this week and it has happened before too. I don't know, maybe I'm just not a very likable person and I'm just some weirdo that no one wants around.

Hugs

That could be, but the first time the entire mirror wasn't actually moved and was just readjusted so that wouldn't be from someone bumping into it.

That is so weird... So it's actually the angle of the mirror being messed with, not just getting folded in?

PS, I doubt you're unlikable like you think you are. It sounds like you do your best to get along with people. You know, it seems like people from different areas can have very different mentalities and levels of acceptance, maybe the people from where you are just are not very open to people like aspies?