Might lose my job, on the verge of hurting myself please

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22 Mar 2016, 3:19 pm

I am having issues with many of my co workers due to me being offensive, my aspergers is causing me to be too comfortable with people and I said the wrong things. I want to hurt myself and if I lose this job I might kill myself. Please save me?



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22 Mar 2016, 3:32 pm

How long have you worked there?


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22 Mar 2016, 3:35 pm

Few months, it is the only chance I have to make a decent income (When I become a salesman) and losing this would mean I live my life with mediocre income.



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22 Mar 2016, 3:37 pm

Has somebody already made a complaint against you at your works?


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22 Mar 2016, 3:44 pm

I don't know, I talked to my boss and it didn't seem like she had anything to say aside from a mean facebook post I made. One girls bf came and semi-threatened me (Didn't actually say anything threatening but his tone and posture said otherwise)



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22 Mar 2016, 3:51 pm

So, have you made a malicious Facebook post about one of your coworkers or was it about just something in general and they didn't like it?


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22 Mar 2016, 3:54 pm

My boss, no not malicious, it was a picture of Michael myers watching from a bush (horror movie) and it was compared to a supervisor watching you.



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22 Mar 2016, 3:58 pm

hahahaha....I'd be surprised if you got fired over that.

Does your supervisor have a sense of humour?


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22 Mar 2016, 4:00 pm

She asked me to remove it and said she didn't appreciate that. One girls BF was pissed. So I have lost her as a friend, to top it off I could get fired for that.
The girl dates a lot of latino guys, I made a joke and said White taco. Which is racist (I get too comfortable thing again) and can result in a fire.



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22 Mar 2016, 4:06 pm

And if you did get fired, what then?

Are there other similar jobs in your area?


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22 Mar 2016, 4:08 pm

I don't know, I don't think so. I need help



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22 Mar 2016, 4:15 pm

It's true that sometimes you might feel comfortable enough around people to make jokes about them.

In this case somebody has taken offense because you made a racist joke.

I don't know about where you come from but where I live that is a case for dismissal.

Have you tried apologising for maybe causing offense?


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22 Mar 2016, 4:21 pm

Im sorry, but I am on the verge of harming myself. Please just leave me alone



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22 Mar 2016, 5:22 pm

BaneBear wrote:
I am having issues with many of my co workers due to me being offensive, my aspergers is causing me to be too comfortable with people and I said the wrong things. I want to hurt myself and if I lose this job I might kill myself. Please save me?

OK. Shut up.

You're welcome.



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22 Mar 2016, 5:29 pm

My friend. You have to calm down. Both now, and on the job.

You know you're sabotaging yourself sometimes. I'm glad you still have the job. You still have a fighting chance. Just do the job to the best of your ability, and avoid the social things, unless somebody approaches you. Then go home and pursue your special interests.

Please don't harm yourself. It's not worth it.