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Kitty4670
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04 Aug 2016, 10:51 pm

I wish someone else can help me instead of her, she been causing sooooooo much trouble for me, she cause me ALOT of stress, angry & upset stomach. My speech is ruin, cuz of tooooo much stress, I can still talk good, but I can have sooooo much problems, I'm having trouble pronouncing my 'S' & having trouble with other things like repeating myself, having trouble talking & I been using double words, I can spell wrong, can't use the right sentences. I wish I have my own name on my bill accounts. Why did my mom put her in charge of my trust money? She is not trustworthy & she don't have good judgement. I don't understand her, she used to listen me. When my mom died, I moved back in her house, my sister was living there with her teenage son, I hardly got along with her my whole life, we had a like-hate relationship. When I moved in my mom's house, me & my sister finally got along, we were talking, she told me about her nightmares & she talked to me about her NO GOOD husband (they were separated, he cheated on her, she told me he was VERY Controlling, Selfish, Demanding, Uncaring, Cared more about himself & not a good father, he is an alcoholic too) Ten months later, her son was so out of control, she invited her husband to stay with us for awhile to help their son, slowly later, her attitude change, she was ignoring me, she stopped listening to me, she was Selfish, Controlling, cared more about herself & thinks she knows everything about me. I wish I have help.



John 35 Alabama
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05 Aug 2016, 3:02 pm

Very strong words. Are you absolutely sure about all of this?



aspieinaz
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06 Aug 2016, 4:00 am

Sorry to hear about the problems with your sister. Family members can be some of the hardest people to get along with. I've often been glad I don't have a sister because if she wasn't ASD like me, she'd probably be so much better at everything in life than me and I'd always be comparing myself to her. I have two brothers who do not get along at all and each wants me to side with them. That's makes for terrible family relations. I guess it's good I moved 2000 miles away from them five years ago. It's lonely though not having any family around. I hope something will change for the better in your relationship. Until then, please accept a (((HUG)))


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