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......im ugly no body likes me

well thats me in picture....

http://imgur.com/rPSZvqL

I'm no looker, that's for sure. besides, it doesn't matter as much as you think how you look. Women like how you act more than looks.

95% of physical attractiveness is physical fitness, so if you want to feel better about yourself and improve your appearance, you need to exercise 3-5 times a week for 40-60 minutes at a time. You can pick-up cheap copies of exercise DVDs you can do at home in your living room from eBay or Amazon or you can join fitness classes at your local gym/YMCA, or join a martial arts program. If you have no money to spend at all, you can always look up exercise videos on YouTube.

You also need to cut your caloric intake to something similar to USDA guidelines: https://health.gov/dietaryguidelines/

Your goal is to get your Body Mass Index (BMI) into the healthy range. You can input your height and weight into this calculator to get an idea of how much weight you need to lose: http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/educational/lose_wt/BMI/bmicalc.htm

With exercise, the key is to find something that you enjoy so you will keep doing it and be aware that it takes about two weeks of exercise before your body is conditioned to it, so for those two weeks it will feel painful and/or uncomfortable. I used a DVD series called Turbo Jam because the instructor was not intimidating, the fitness models in the videos were of diverse body types, and the series had a timer on the screen for each exercise segment which helped me focus and follow the program. It might be something you could be interested in.

I can't get the picture up. I want to see your picture, as I bet you're not ugly at all.

If find that dogs, children, women, and NT people are more interested in what I am doing. They are engaged-by and follow motion. Show yourself being so preoccupied by your special interest, that you have forgotten the presence of the camera.

And, whether you are statuesque, photogenic, or a monster, you will be happy, then and there.

If you have a strange haircut or sense of style, also, take care of it, to your liking, before recording an image. People put lots of effort into the worst or cheapest cars, so presumably want to be driving them. I've heard people compliment the Pinto. If your shoes suck, at least clean them, etc. Show the pride of ownership.

Take pride in yourself or what you are doing.

There is no need to be a good actor.

I couldn't see the picture.

Usually when someone says they're ugly and posts a picture- that I can see....all I see is a normal face. I think if a person's face is free of disfigurement and or a birth defect, they just have a normal face....and maybe they should be thankful for that.

I bet that you're very attractive.

'Attractiveness' is nothing more than a perception! Attraction is a personal thing and therefore will not find as a whole the same level of attractiveness in a single thing.... From what i have heard from women is its not so much about looks but 'Confidence', if you show confidence, women generally find this attractive ( please any women feel happy to chip in on that last comment! For or against).... It is totally subjective, Therefore try to start loving yourself, for the size of our own universe in effect you are a miracle to be even living, connect with that interstellar beauty and start accepting yourself for who you are, once you do, it will be obvious to the people around you! NEVER give up!! ! You are remarkable in many many ways!!

I bet Mr. Berabara has a nice face.

I couldn't see the picture, but it's all okay. If you learn to be comfortable with yourself as you are, it doesn't matter if you're overweight or whatever... Having a fun personality is attractive.

I hate to have to say this, but it's true: insecurity about your physical appearance is counter productive. If you are depressed and neurotic about your looks, people will find you depressing to interact with. It sucks, but it is true... I had a plain looking and overweight female friend and I loved her, and I still do, but I couldn't talk to her after a while because she'd drone on about how ugly and fat she felt... I wish I could have convinced her otherwise, and I tried, but I wasn't able to cope with her negative personality.

It wasn't her fault, but I couldn't cope. It's my bad. I should have been a better friend, but the sad fact is that most people, myself included, are not patient enough.

I didn't see the photo, but I bet you look just fine.
The problem happens for people when they start caring what other people think,
or maybe they have an abusive or toxic person in their life that call them ugly ...
in which case, it's really the abusive or toxic person who is ugly.

On the other side of the coin,
people can get jealous of you and not like you if
they think you're more good-looking than they are.

So just be your best self.

I am betting you are not, and I am glad to see so many out here see what really matters. I have always said, I would love for the world to see as I do, and to view what really matters in a person. The skin wouldn't matter so much anymore, if they did.

I think it's easy for women here to say we aren't ugly even if we are, they'll never have to deal with it. I think they'd say differently if near by and ones we were asking out. Never had a woman in my area ever say anything but That I'm ugly.