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25 Jan 2017, 10:22 am

Okay, lets say you have a niece (me) and her husband stay with you.... They eat too much food... How do you react:

A: resolve it like adults, come up with a solution before it becomes a major problem

Or

B. Loose 40lbs without telling them theres a problem, go off your psych meds, call your daughter and tell her a bunch of mean crap about your niece and nephew. Say you're going to commit suicide, block contact with everyone so they think you did it. Get your entire family against your niece and nephew by using facebook....


Im not understanding choice B, but it happened!! !


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25 Jan 2017, 11:05 am

Bloody hell, that's rough.

I think the food is a diversion.

For some bizarre reason I know someone who got bludgeoned with "you eat too much" . It wasn't about the food, it was just the one concrete thing these people could come up with.

Something else is the matter, but I guess you're going to have to ask someone straight what exactly happened.


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25 Jan 2017, 3:03 pm

Aparantly he often gets like this off his meds and hes depressed over his wife leaving him. But everyone thinks we did something to leave him in such a bad state.

He took off walking leaving us here with no gas in the car, no groceries and no money and my family against me so they wont help.


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25 Jan 2017, 5:40 pm

Funny thing: his daughter attacked us on how we buy food and she dont really know and got it all wrong.... She keeps doing this and people believe what she says, i dont know if shes making this up or if her dad is telling lies about us to her.

I deleted fb from my phone...


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29 Jan 2017, 3:34 pm

In continuation of the drama...

A concerned relative brought 200lbs of food. I made dinner and my uncle comes home saying he ate somewhere else which is typical. Then later he came in with a couple of packets of oatmeal... I asked why didnt he eat the dinner we made? Then looking back he almost always says he "ate somewhere else". So i thought he lost 40lbs because hes starving himself!! ! I told my husband who turned around on me and told my uncle who is denying it. He got mad at me for thinking he was lying about " food somewhere else"

Now what?


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