The word that I hate the most.

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02 Jun 2007, 4:45 pm

There's one owrd that I hate more than anything. That word is underwear. I've made the mistake of bringning my laundry to my parents place. My mum was folding my laundry. She asked me what the hell I was using for underwear. I'm afraid to tell her that I use incontinence products. I've accepted my soiling problem and so have my closest friends. I'm afraid that my mother will never accept it. This will hopefully be the first night that I'll be staying the night at her place, in more than two months. Should I stay the night, or go back to my place. I'm afraid that I'll have a Chocolate Suprize, while I'm sleeping and stink up the room that I'll be sleeping in, and she will be looking for dog poop, or yelling at me. I have flashbacks of getting yelled at for having my last accidents, before the age of six. After she asked what the hell I was using for underwear, I burried my body under the top blanket of the spare bed and started crying myself to sleep. I've realized that behaviour and nipped it in the bud, than I got out of that room and back onto WrongPlanet.



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02 Jun 2007, 4:48 pm

f**k her-there's nothing wrong with your problem
your mother doesn't sound like a nice lady (yet your a lovely one-apple luckilly fell far from that tree)
I hate the world of shoes :mrgreen:



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02 Jun 2007, 4:52 pm

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There's one owrd that I hate more than anything. That word is underwear. I've made the mistake of bringning my laundry to my parents place. My mum was folding my laundry. She asked me what the hell I was using for underwear. I'm afraid to tell her that I use incontinence products. I've accepted my soiling problem and so have my closest friends. I'm afraid that my mother will never accept it. This will hopefully be the first night that I'll be staying the night at her place, in more than two months. Should I stay the night, or go back to my place. I'm afraid that I'll have a Chocolate Suprize, while I'm sleeping and stink up the room that I'll be sleeping in, and she will be looking for dog poop, or yelling at me. I have flashbacks of getting yelled at for having my last accidents, before the age of six. After she asked what the hell I was using for underwear, I burried my body under the top blanket of the spare bed and started crying myself to sleep. I've realized that behaviour and nipped it in the bud, than I got out of that room and back onto WrongPlanet.




I think your mum should be more supportive, that's what loving someone is about....


The word i hate is.....NO

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02 Jun 2007, 5:24 pm

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There's one owrd that I hate more than anything. That word is underwear. I've made the mistake of bringning my laundry to my parents place. My mum was folding my laundry. She asked me what the hell I was using for underwear. I'm afraid to tell her that I use incontinence products. I've accepted my soiling problem and so have my closest friends. I'm afraid that my mother will never accept it. This will hopefully be the first night that I'll be staying the night at her place, in more than two months. Should I stay the night, or go back to my place. I'm afraid that I'll have a Chocolate Suprize, while I'm sleeping and stink up the room that I'll be sleeping in, and she will be looking for dog poop, or yelling at me. I have flashbacks of getting yelled at for having my last accidents, before the age of six. After she asked what the hell I was using for underwear, I burried my body under the top blanket of the spare bed and started crying myself to sleep. I've realized that behaviour and nipped it in the bud, than I got out of that room and back onto WrongPlanet.




I think your mum should be more supportive, that's what loving someone is about....


The word i hate is.....NO

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I also can't take no for an answer. I also sometimes hate the phrase, "You're wrong!" I'm a perfectionist when it comes to my obsessions, so when I'm wrong and someone points it out, I feel very sensitive. Plus, I highly dislike any major profanity said to me, even though I probably won't say anything about it.



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02 Jun 2007, 5:38 pm

you should throw in some thongs and breasfeeding bras into your laundry mix to REALLY make it interesting.

she's being rude.... quite frankly


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02 Jun 2007, 5:49 pm

that is funny sedaka :D

I hate it when people say 'whatever'


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02 Jun 2007, 6:10 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
There's one owrd that I hate more than anything. That word is underwear. I've made the mistake of bringning my laundry to my parents place. My mum was folding my laundry. She asked me what the hell I was using for underwear. I'm afraid to tell her that I use incontinence products. I've accepted my soiling problem and so have my closest friends. I'm afraid that my mother will never accept it. This will hopefully be the first night that I'll be staying the night at her place, in more than two months. Should I stay the night, or go back to my place. I'm afraid that I'll have a Chocolate Suprize, while I'm sleeping and stink up the room that I'll be sleeping in, and she will be looking for dog poop, or yelling at me. I have flashbacks of getting yelled at for having my last accidents, before the age of six. After she asked what the hell I was using for underwear, I burried my body under the top blanket of the spare bed and started crying myself to sleep. I've realized that behaviour and nipped it in the bud, than I got out of that room and back onto WrongPlanet.


and good for you, too, CR.

I lived away from my parents and after 23 years went back to do one of the twelve steps of aa so I could stay sober. Cockney Rebel, I had worked with my sponsor for 3 years to prepare for that step, mapping out what to do if I got all involved in mom's thinking by going to an aa meeting, getting someone to be a temporary sponsor in my mom and dad's town, etc, I mean, I was ready for ANYTHING. however, within two days I was reduced to crying, hiding in my mom's pantry, blubbering like a little kid over my mother being so damnedably rude to me. I had to think real hard to remember to pick myself up, wash my face and go call my sponsor and get to a meeting in order to defuse that old mother daughter connection timebomb.

And I was a better woman for it, too! When you have the key to the treasure, it is having the treasure itself!

Living well is the best revenge when you live around people like that. I do love the idea of taking a jaunt to the local thrift shop and buying some scandelous panties and a few good sturdy breast feeding bras! THAT is funny!


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02 Jun 2007, 7:15 pm

alexbeetle wrote:
that is funny sedaka :D

I hate it when people say 'whatever'

:roll: Whatever...

:lol:

I agree that good ol' Mom is just going to have to get used to your products. As long as she doesn't have to change you, what the hell business is it of hers? Maybe you like going commando - where's that her affair?

I don't hate the word shoes - I just hate shoes themselves. Sadly, there are a lot of places I'm not allowed to go barefoot...


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02 Jun 2007, 7:16 pm

alexbeetle wrote:
that is funny sedaka :D

I hate it when people say 'whatever'


Whatever.



I never would say it,
but I just HAD to.



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02 Jun 2007, 7:16 pm

Oh yeah!

I absolutely forgot about that disrespectful word, whatever.

If someone says that word to me, then I definitely get offended and I definitely want to release my true feelings on that person.



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02 Jun 2007, 8:34 pm

hmmm....

im starting to suspect why my roommate is being pissy towards me....

w/e.................................. lol

he's disrespectful as all-get-out to me anyway........ i relish that i have only two more months with this person


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02 Jun 2007, 8:44 pm

could you bring underwear anyway, and not use it... just so she does not question

she should accept you no mattetr what! :(


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02 Jun 2007, 9:15 pm

I got the same question, for
no real reason, I just can't stand
the things. Layering and all.

Just tell her that it's none of her
business. Or, that you're embarrassed
to have her deal with your underwear.



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02 Jun 2007, 9:51 pm

Raph522 wrote:
could you bring underwear anyway, and not use it... just so she does not question

she should accept you no mattetr what! :(


I could do that.



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02 Jun 2007, 10:13 pm

or say what I would say :mrgreen:



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02 Jun 2007, 11:32 pm

Why don't you...just tell her?